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Boifriend
15/f
ok me and my boifriend cant wait to have sex but im still wondering if im ready to have sex with him i have had sex before 4 times but not with him and all those times have been with the wrong person and this time im kinda taking it slow compared to all the other times we have been dating for 4 months now but we've known each other for bout 6 or 7 months so how can i find out if hes the right person to have sex with...
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Have you had sex with four guys or with one other guy four times?
Sorry that doesnt matter but it is totally up to you if you want to have sex with your boyfriend.
You should ask yourself if you think you are ready. And is your boyfriend pressuring you in any way?
If is then I would wait a while until you fully know...
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first of all. it's boYfriend* people will take you a lot more seriously if you learn to spell right.
now, you're fifteen and you've already had sex with FOUR people?! 15 year olds shouldnt even be having sex! with how easy you give it up, you'll likely be seeing an STD in your future. I'm 17, almost 18, and i've been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years and we've only had sex once and it was a month ago! do what you want, it doesn't seem like anyone on here would be able to convince you to stop being easy but i definitly frown upon what you're doing.
and you'll probably rate this a one. =] have a good day
by the way, Matt and Lilteacup said the same thing as everyone else, just in a more blunt way and you rated a 1. fair? i think not.
mm hmm, see i completely called that you would rate me a 1. if you only accept fluffed up answers saying you should "go with your heart", then why'd you even put a question on here? this is an A D V I C E site. not everyone believes 15 year olds should be sleeping around and not everyone is going to promote it. so no, i'm not a bitch, i'm an honest girl with morals =]
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Only you will know when you are ready. Nobody else can tell you when you should have sex. the fact that you are questioning yourself proves that you have doubts about it. And until those doubts are gone you are not ready.
Dirrty Dani x
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I'll get to the point on this one - when you have to question yourself, it usually means you aren't ready. Of course you can't wait to have sex, you're 15 & your hormones are raging. But I suggest continuing to take things slow & wait till you know he's the right one. Why the rush?
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you really need to think about it and if you have had it before and it was with the wrong people then you might want to sit down with him and descuss it with him and if after you do you feel like you should then you should go for it
have fun and i hope i helped
-xpoetx
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You aren't ready because you still aren't sure yourself. You will know deep down when you are ready physically and mentally, 100%. Just wait it out so it can be a special, memorable moment. Don't forget you are only 15, too.
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Not to sound rude, but if you have to question it you're most likely not ready.
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ok flat straight out i'm going to tell you your not ready your 15. You will be ready in time don't rush things. You need to worrie about growing up first you have a long ways to go before then.
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Simple answer for a simple mind;
you're not.
EDIT:
I don't try, I just do it. Like a Nike ad.
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well to be honest i think that the right thing is what your doing taking your time ...even though sex is wounderful it can deffinatley screw some things up...i think u should take your time and explain to him that you want it to be perfect...to find out if he is the right one all u have to do is ask your self this question..will he still love you in the morning ..what would happen if it all went wrong would you laugh about it later..or would it be kward city ..do you trust him enough to let him have his way with u..u just have to think about this alittle more in depth ..is it just sex or is it much much more than that
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