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What are some good ways to destress on the spot because i cant just walk away from my problems like everyone always expectx people to do. thanks (link)
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Destressing tips:
watching fish swim ( could be in a fish tank )
breathe slowly and count to ten.
it is a fact that closing your eyes slowly counting to ten and picturing black velvet calms you down. Well thats what it said in a fact book i read.
Dirrty Dani x
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If I were to say something to my counselor or a nurse about my depression could they talk to my parents without my permission? I've been wanting to see someone about it but I refuse to if my parents have to get involved. If that is the case, who else could I see about it? (link)
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Yes they could if you are in any possible danger. One of my parents worked at different schools for years and she was a like counselor thing. If you are in danger they could tell your parents or other teachers. However if you are not in danger then the stuff you tell them should be kept completely confidential.
Dirrty Dani x
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I've been acting really weird lately. Like there's my boyfriend.. and we're going through a rough time... and like a keep freaking out when he tells me he's gonna call on the weekends and he ends up calling like and hour later... and then he'll tell me he's going out and I'll flip out... but like that just gets me going crazy and I totally freak out. But then I also get upset with other stuff too... like stuff that's happened to me is I cry all the time, for no reason what so ever... i feel like i don't belong here at all and like I feel like I don't want to live (sounds horrible I know)... I get angry really easily...I feel like I don't want to do anything anymore... I sleep really weird.. like I'll sleep and then wake up from a horrible dream or just keep waking up... or it takes me a really long time to go to sleep... and like sometimes when I fall asleep while waiting for my boyfriend to call I'll wake up and then just freak out and jump up and get my phone and start calling him a million times.. and i can't concentrate that well.. and like this is on a DAILY bases... I have no idea what's wrong with me.. but please give me some advice (link)
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It seems to me hun like you have got depression. I'm not an expert on the subject but i suffer from severe depression myself and what you have just described is like your describing me. When someone says something i don't like i don't forget it and i will cry over it later on in life. I suggest you see a psychiatrist as thats what i used to have but i need a more qualified one now. They may put you on anti-depressant tablets i am on those but i have had to take a higher dose. If you need anyone to talk to you can visit my piczo site and talk to me on there. i won't approve your messages so nobody else can see them.
my website is www.x-dani-macs-elp-syt-x.piczo.com
love Dirrty Dani x
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Me and my close friend just had this convosation on MSN:
i said
pete sounded stoned lol
she said
we was gna get stoned but dan didnt have a grinder and sam completley fucked up the joint
Now, I am COMPLETELY againest drugs.
Should i talk to her?
And if i should, what kind of things could i say?
I'm really not good at that sort of thing.
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First of all you should let her know the dangers of taking drugs including the long-term effects. Let her know your feelings about the matter. But don't expect to change her, besides it's her body she is fucking up not yours.
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I started doing 100 squats every night starting last week. (I stretch before I do them, so don't worry). What areas do squats help improve? When should I start seeing noticeable results? (link)
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Well, squats tone your arse and your thighs. I am suprised you haven't seen the results if you do that many.
Dirrty Dani ox
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ok me and my boifriend cant wait to have sex but im still wondering if im ready to have sex with him i have had sex before 4 times but not with him and all those times have been with the wrong person and this time im kinda taking it slow compared to all the other times we have been dating for 4 months now but we've known each other for bout 6 or 7 months so how can i find out if hes the right person to have sex with... (link)
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Only you will know when you are ready. Nobody else can tell you when you should have sex. the fact that you are questioning yourself proves that you have doubts about it. And until those doubts are gone you are not ready.
Dirrty Dani x
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is it possible to pop your cherry more than once? Because it seems like everytime my boyfriend fingers me i bleed really bad. I dont think that is normal but i also dont think hes being excessively aggressive. Can anyone help me find out what might be going on? (link)
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No. Popping your cherry means losing your virgingity and if he has penetrated you once you are no longer a virgin. The bleeding could be caused by a scratch or cut on the inside of your vagina. Your boyfriend should be more gentle with you!
Dirrty Dani xo
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I have a really red & bumpy rash around my vagina. It burns when I pee & it is kind-of raw. I'm on the pill, so my boyfriend & I don't use condoms. We are eachother's firsts, so I'm assuming it's not an STD. Does anyone know what this may be?
Additional info: It's only been like this since right after we had sex today. (link)
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This is probably an infection. It doesn't matter if you are on the pill, the pill's main purpose is to stop you getting pregnant, the condoms main purpose is to stop you getting STDs and STIs. So a pill will not stop you from getting an infection or disease. Also it doesn't matter if you two have only had sex with each other. Sexual diseases are caused by bodily fluids mixing together sometimes or it can even be caused without having sex and just having skin to skin contact. Get checked at your doctors is the best advice i can give.
Dirrty Dani ox
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what are some really good things to say to make a guy go crazy and make him really horny? really good ones would be grreat. thanks :] (link)
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Well this really depends on the guy, because different people like different things. If you are sexually active with this guy you could tell him all the things you are going to do to him, if you're not sexually active with him you could tell him all the things you would like to do to him. If you're going to tell him you want to give him a blowjob don't say just that. Guys are like big kids they like to unwrap a present slowly and you rushing into things without detail is not really a turn on. Pause between each thing you say so it keeps him waiting ( just a little bit though! ) and he'll be begging for you to say more. If you're having phone sex ( talking dirty over the phone ) or having cyber sex ( talking dirty over the internet ) then sometimes talk in the present as if you are actually doing what you say. You could say something like i am curling my tongue slowly up your rock hard prick. or something like that. Remember only say what you are comfortable with.
Dirrty Dani ox
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Ok, im very freaked out here. i'm 15., I furst got my period when I was 13.
6 days ago, I got my period, everything normal but a little lighter than it usually was and no cramps. Then, it stopped for night ,the next morning i didn't have anything and i took a shower. at 4:30 today I got my period again, but this time the color was redish.
Then, yesterday it came again for one day, and today not here anymore.. but im afraid that it might come tomorrow
I don't know why it went off and then came again, is this normal?
Could stress cause this? because i've been stressing a lot lately
thankss
PLEASE HELP- WHy does this happen? IS IT NORMAL? (link)
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Periods being irregular is quite common. infact it happens to most people i don't really think it is a problem but get checked at your GPs just to put your mind at rest.
Dirrty Dani xo
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