I had sex ONCE with my boyfriend in late October. He used a condom and it was only for a few minutes, but i'm so ridiculously paranoid. I know he didn't ejaculate because he told me. I've had my period sense then, but my stomach has been hurting for a while. There's been a bad cold going around so i'm pretty sure that's it.
is there any way i'm pregnant?
your def. not pregnant
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I've had a friend for about 3 going on 4 years,
we've never been anything more than friends but I liked him and he liked me at a time too.
We lost our virgnity to eachother once and got into this fight and didnt talk to much for a few monthes.
We made up and became friends again[i never stopped liking him]
He acted like he liked me ,but we still didnt go out.
Since about June,we've both been sexually active without ONLY eachother
but we aren't going out,but at the same time I still like him but i feel like its been way to long to tell him ,and he said he used to like me but idk about now.
And i learned about something called oxytocin,or "love glue" and i feel like im really attached to him ,because i havent been able to get over him no matter what,but ive been able to get over other guys i HAVENT had sex with,which i havent had sex with anyone except him ...
Do you think he's attatched to me to..?
I know its wrong to do stuff with someone your not going out with,and i dont have sex with him just because he wants to ,because i want to as well,but i dont know im kind of confused...
your virginity is a very big thing. alot of times people become attatched to the person they lost their virginity to, especially if their is strong feelings involved first and thats the only person youve ever done it with. becarefull with your feelings. and you cant relle tell from the info given whether hes attatched to u or not.
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i am now 14 and am a girl. When i was 13 i became bulemic which led to me cutting i cut for almost 8 months. I stopped for a while, then started again. then my bf marc got me to stop btu then he randomly dumped me, then him and his friend molested me wen he was drunk but then i had seex with him by choice 2 days after he starts going out with another girl and doesnt care about wat he did to me. I was a virgin and havign sex for the first time was a big deal to me and he knew that and i chose him but now he betrayed me and used me, im cutting again and i dont kno how to stop. I jus feel so useless and hurt i dont know wat to do. . .
your going through a lot of emotions rite now. and i understand whut its like to feel the way you feel because i used to cut aswell.. it sounds to me like your heart broken, but your also not at peace to whut happened to you. ive had a lot of friends in similar situations as you... most of them had to go to a therapist to help with their cutting. i went to anger managment and therapy for 15 months, and now all of my anger problems have been solved. so i would suggest that. but also if you cant see a therapist you should find something to keep your mind off of cutting, my thing was writing poems. at first i had to punch a pillow to let out my anger.
with your broken heart you have to understand how guys think... most of them really dont care bout how a girl feels about their virginity. that guy is pathetic and you really shouldnt concentrate on him. i know your hurt, and i kow how it feels. just forgive and forget keep moving and do what u have to do for yourself..
hope i helped.
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