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I have a really red & bumpy rash around my vagina. It burns when I pee & it is kind-of raw. I'm on the pill, so my boyfriend & I don't use condoms. We are eachother's firsts, so I'm assuming it's not an STD. Does anyone know what this may be?
Additional info: It's only been like this since right after we had sex today. (link)
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UTI and/or Yeast Infection. Both treatable and fairly common. Try an OTC method to clear it up, but if it stays the same or gets worse within the next two to three days, go to the doctor.
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ok so i'm 15, and i give advise here, but in this case, on myself i'm confused on what exactally to do... so my friend (Brian) likes me but my other friend(Becky) likes him. you can see the problem right there! haha
but Brian asked me out and i said yes, and now Becky is saying that she doesn't like Brian(she doesn't know about him liking me). i am not really sure if i like him or not, and i'm totally confused. i have also never been kissed and he knows that, and he asked me to kiss him. i'm afraid to kiss him, because of my inexperience, and because i'm not sure i like him.
i'm so confused on what to do... should i go out with him even though i'm not sure of my feelings for him?, and should i kiss him? i really want to kiss someone, but i'm so very afraid to. i don't know if i'm ready for a relationship. i'm a huge flirt, i cant stop flirting, and i hate being tied down to someone unless i really like them... like my sister, or my best friend. please help me!
i know some of you will think that i'm too young for all this, but the truth is, i'm more mature than anyone i know, sometimes even more so than my 22 year old sister.
please help!
thanks a bunch!(in advance)
xoxo
Maya
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Many people can be mature to a degree at 15, but you have to remember, this is just practice for the real world. Just the fact that you say you are more mature than anyone you know shows you still have some growing up to do, because mature people don't worry about judging a maturity level.
There is so much more you'll have to worry about down the road. Don't fret over this, there will be plenty of boys. Just take your time and don't worry about getting tied down. At 15, you shouldn't be tied down. And yes, even at 22 people can be very immature and bad examples. So if you are as mature as you say, then don't compare yourself to the example your sister has given. Look at where she has failed and do it better. An example of what not to do isn't always the best way to learn, but being mature means you know how to tell the difference and choose the right path.
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Me and my friends are doing our school pageant. We're not really one of those psycho girls who will kill the queen. It's for fun and when we graduate, when is the next time we'll ever have the chance to do it, right? Well what I'm asking is..I think I walk like a penguin and I'm pigeoned-toed and bow-legged..I could be overreacting but what can help my walk and such? Just walk around in my shoes? What can help my posture? I don't want to fall off the stage..THANKS GUY. (link)
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Well, it depends on if the issue is a bone structure problem or a muscle balancing issue. If the interior or exterior muscles are stronger or weaker than the other, it can cause this. Try working out with someone who knows what muscle groups you need to work on. That's really the only solution I can think of the help possibly alleviate the problem in a relatively quick time frame.
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ok my boyfreind is 24 and he really really stinks. We have been together for 2 years and i knew when i got with him that he had a strong body odor. And its not like its just a problem that he tries to correct. Sometimes ... this is gross ... but he will go 2 3 or 4 weeks without showering. We work together and our boss talks to him about it every week (im surprised they haven't fired him) and they have recently gave up talking to him and come to me. So did the woman he babysits for. Its really imbarassing. He does have some mental problems so what are some ways i can get him to bathe regularly? and is there any good over the counter deodarent that can cover up strong pit odors he could tries? any help would be appreciated! (link)
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You need to sit him down and figure out what the issue is with him not wanting to bathe. We're not in the middle ages and showers are pretty much everywhere. The fact that you knew he had this issue from the get-go and you've been with him for two years shows you must really care about him and that is phenomenal. And if you really care about him this much, you have to show him how this is affecting you and your relationship with him.
Now I know it always helps to get a non-biased opinion from someone you'll never meet, but you've been together 2 years, your boss says he stinks, and he can't babysit anymore because of it. You have to go to him and show him that if he cares about you, he needs to bathe. Now, the tricky part is figuring out what kind of mental problems you are talking about.
One way of countering this, is to possibly take a shower with him. Tell him if you can lather him up, you'll let him lather you up. It'll be fun! Now, you have to be careful with this because he may become dependent of you taking a shower with him. But, one way to counter that problem, is when you get out of the shower and everything is said and done, compliment him ALOT. Tell him how great it is a to a super clean boyfriend and how good he smells.
Also, buy him the full set of Red Zone from Old Spice before you sit down with him. They have two sets (and it is relatively inexpensive) that I love to use (and the ladies love it too) called Show Time and Aqua Reef. They have the body wash, spray, and deoderant. I have used the Red Zone deoderant years before they came out with the bodywash and spray and it is the only thing that works for me 100% of the time no matter how active I am.
If none of this works, then you know you're dealing with a deep rooted problem, but what can be better to break that shower anxiety than having his sexy little lady lather him up and compliment him about it. And other people, GUARANTEED, will compliment him. Possibly out of relief from the odor, but it's still a reinforcing compliment! Hope this helps!
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I have limewire on my computer, and it only works on some days. For example, on Monday I may try to open it and it simply givs me a te hourglass real quick and nothing happens. Then, on Wednesday, I try to open it and it works perfectly. Why does it act so day-to-day, and do you know how I can fix it? (link)
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You're not going to like my answer but LimeWire is the problem.
Internet P2P apps is the category LimeWire, and the many other associated programs (BearShare, Morpheus, FrostWire, Kazaa, WinMX, etc.) fall into. P2P apps are THE leading cause of virus and spyware infections.
Previously in my line of work, we would see 15+ computers per day (from kids in high school to grand parents who let their grand kids use their PC for anything) that would end up paying $199+ to get their virus or spyware infection fixed because of using P2P apps.
You need to either a.) get professional help or b.) restore your computer back to factory condition. Professional help costs alot when it comes to virus/spyware infections, but you can typically keep your settings and data intact. Restoring your computer to it's orginial factory condition is relatively easy (granted you have the original discs) but you lose EVERYTHING, including the infections.
Now, depending on the type of PC you have, such as a retail brand (HP, Compaq, Dell, etc.), you should have restore discs. But newer model PC's have a seperate partition, or seperate section set aside as virtual restore discs, that can help you but could also cause the infection to come right back. You need to perform a destructive restore that also rebuilds that partition if their is one there. If you have the discs, just select "perform a destructive restore" in the options. It'll say something to that effect.
If you need help, contact the manufacturer and they will typically walk you through the basics of a restore. If not, contact your local techy guys. But the bottom line is, you always get what you pay for, and the songs or whatver you've been downloading have seemed like they are free, but there's always ALWAYS a catch. And you definately are starting to catch it.
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"No one wants Tania (female) who is our manager to stay in our department. She is an idiot. She harasses people (the employees) and is very mean. Today I was talking to Nancy (a coworker and friend) while Nancy was waiting for her documents to be printed from the printer. So Tania comes over and buds in and asks Nita as if I wasn't there: "Is Sandra helping you with something". So I turned to her and said "You know Tania I have a cousin who is a judge and he told me you are harassing us and it is illegal". So Tania says to me in a nervous way "Oh I only said it because Nancy has a customer at her desk." Tania is constantly harassing and bothering all of us. She micromanages and constantly making us all uncomfortable. She buds in where she shouldn't. She is constantly calling people in her office and chewing them out and writing them up every chance she gets. This morning I asked Tania if her scotch tape dispenser needs scotch tape and she replied: I am a grown woman I don't need any one asking me if I need scotch tape dispenser . Let me tell you on a professional level I am here just to work. And one couple came in with their five year daughter. The daughter held my hand the entire time she was at our company and walked with me wherever I went. Tania said to me in a nasty tone of voice: "You are not allowed to walk with her" SHE REALLY IS HARASSING EVERYONE IN MY DEPARTMENT. CUSTOMERS HATE HER AND SO DO WE (MY COWORKERS)" (link)
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It sounds like she's been in management for at least some extended period of time and she's starting to have a management break down. How was she was she first started in that position? Where you there at that time? Also, how long did it take for her to start acting like this and has it become progressively worse? Obviously, you and your team have issues with her that are keeping you from exceling at what you do.
Have you talked with your other managers or her superiors? If not, and things are really this bad, they are going to want some kind of proof UP FRONT. You have to do this tactfully though. If your cousin if a judge, then think of these other managers as judges who try to act.... more personal. For example, if customers AND the employees actually hate her, then what good is she in that position? But, you must not completely dog her to your other managers as this will equally make you and the position you're taking on this matter look less credible.
Politely ask one of your managers if it is ok if you can be in charge of conducting random customer exit surveys. This will enable you to go up to customers after the sale and give them a series of questions based on the experience they had with the sales person and what the company offers. This will get the true answer out of the customer, so when you have bad surveys from customers and the rest of the associates behind you on this problem, management will have to do something.
Respect seems like the key issue here. For some reason, she either doesn't respect her job or the company and you obviously don't respect her.
But, regardless of what's going on, your job ultimately is to make your manager look good. I know, it sucks. But, the theory here is that she will get the heck out of there and you will be able to do what you think is best and really turn things around. Even if you just base what you do on the opposite of what your previous leader showed you. I hope this helps!
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So I am a gymnast and lately I have noticed my back locking up. I dont know if that is the right thing to call it or not but when I do some backwards tumbling it locks and i cant get over, I just fall. It occurs most when I am do backwalk overs on the beam and back handsprings on the beam, it dosent really occur very often on like floor but sometimes when I am doing a layout full it locks so I cannot twist, then other times when I am on bars a lot of times when I am working giant it happens to. What is this what can I do to make it stop occuring? Thanks :) (link)
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You may be experiencing the early stages of a disc problem. Possibly bulging now or maybe even into the stages of herniation.
Unfortunately, if you have just strugged it off for awhile and keep going, you could ultimately be risking your chances of ever going back to the same old you when it comes to gymnastics. So, in other words, go see a professional. This is nothing to play with.
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is it possible to pop your cherry more than once? Because it seems like everytime my boyfriend fingers me i bleed really bad. I dont think that is normal but i also dont think hes being excessively aggressive. Can anyone help me find out what might be going on? (link)
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I would say you definitely need to get that checked out and tell your doctor exactly what you said here. It shouldn't be anything serious, but as always when dealing with something like this, it could be. The sooner you get it checked, the better you'll be regardless the outcome.
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