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Im Cassie.
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Age: 16
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Member Since: November 17, 2007
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Okay.. Well i am 14 years old. And my boyfriend oh 3 years just broke up with me. I have been so sad over all of this... and i dont know what to do. Some people have said he broke up with me because im not pretty enough. others say im sexie some say he broke up with me because i like to cuddle with him. But that made no sence to me. but i just need help. If any guy's read this and you think you can help please comment me i would love to talk to you. ang girl's please help. you know whta this is like (link)
I dont get how a 14 year old can have a 3 year relationship with a boy..but..

You need to have communication with him. Ask him why he broke up with you. Since you both are so young..this might be hard.


I have the Sims 2, Season, and Pets loaded on my computer..
If I delete the regular Sims 2 can I still play Seasons and Pets? Because it's taking up to much memory on my comptuer.
Thanks! :) (link)
Im pretty sure you cant because since the seasons and pets are expansion packs it needs the sims 2.


well i am dating this guy we have nothing in common but i am attracted to him and i find myself flirting with other guys and not telling guys i am taken when i should be what is wrong with me and what should i do? (link)
It sounds like you are in the relationship for more of the lust than the love, and thats wrong.

You need to find someone you are not only attracted too, but feel like their your other half. Relationships last longer when you know how to communicate and be honest with your significant other.

-cass


15/f
ok i have temper tandrums so i have alot anger built up inside me any way to get my anger out before i expode b/c between skool, my boifriend, my mama life has been close to hell so plz help thanx (link)
-Maybe keep a journal so you can write all your anger out.
-Listen to mellow music, to calm you down.
-Find someone to talk to, someone who lets you rant and cry on their shoulder.
-Exercise. Go for a run, swim, dance. Anything that makes your heart rate faster.
-Think more positive.




ok so theres this guy who likes me and i like him (i think). Hes 3 years older than me but both our moms agreed for us to date. I just got out of a realtionship that my mom didnt exactly know about and i still like the guy but i dont think he likes me anymore. I have a tendacy to like guys only if they like me. Should I just forget about my ex and move on and take a chance with this new guy? or should I just keep crushing my ex since i dont know if i like the new guy? im so confused. (link)
Im these type of situations..it seems like you need to just go with the flow. Dont take any sudden action yet intill youre absolutly sure about the decition you make.

If you still like your ex and you find out he doesnt have feelings for you anymore..its time to move on.

Talk to the new guy some more. Get to know him. Youre feelings will start to develop and youll tell if you like him as a friend or more.


-cass


what are some 'fun' things you can do at a mall


and i mean with your boyfriendd! and you know..
not just talk and hang and shop and stuff.

i mean have some fun
we already went in a elevator! so know any other places?


thanks! (link)
If you arent going to the mall to shop and hang out, then why go to the mall.

Go somewhere eles.
An amusement park, the beach, anything!

:)


i'm a freshman guy and i really like this girl but shes a sophomore and shes so nice and she's really friendly, but she kind of treats me like the brother type and i really like with her and i flirt with her all the time but she doesn't really realize that she flirts back a little because she's just like that to everyone, what should i do? (link)
The hardest thing to do in this situation is to tell her how you feel but, thats what has to be done.
You never know, she might like you.
You only have one life to live. Take a chance and see what happens. Its not like she'll stop talking to you (inless shes a bitch) and if she does, then why waste your time with her..

Best of luck!


ok so i'm 15, and i give advise here, but in this case, on myself i'm confused on what exactally to do... so my friend (Brian) likes me but my other friend(Becky) likes him. you can see the problem right there! haha
but Brian asked me out and i said yes, and now Becky is saying that she doesn't like Brian(she doesn't know about him liking me). i am not really sure if i like him or not, and i'm totally confused. i have also never been kissed and he knows that, and he asked me to kiss him. i'm afraid to kiss him, because of my inexperience, and because i'm not sure i like him.
i'm so confused on what to do... should i go out with him even though i'm not sure of my feelings for him?, and should i kiss him? i really want to kiss someone, but i'm so very afraid to. i don't know if i'm ready for a relationship. i'm a huge flirt, i cant stop flirting, and i hate being tied down to someone unless i really like them... like my sister, or my best friend. please help me!
i know some of you will think that i'm too young for all this, but the truth is, i'm more mature than anyone i know, sometimes even more so than my 22 year old sister.
please help!

thanks a bunch!(in advance)

xoxo
Maya
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If you are confused about your feeling about him, spend a little more time with him. Your feelings will soon grow and youll know if you like him or not. Don't just kiss him because he wants to kiss you. If he likes you enough he will wait.
Think about it..if you go into the pressure of kissing him, you may fall into alot of other pressure. Do what You want.


I am going out of town for Thanksgiving, and will be on a four-hour, roundtrip flight. My dog is about 18, very,very old...to the point where he'll probably have to be put to sleep within the next few months. But anyway, when he was younger we left him with friends while on vacation, but he's so old that he'll need very special care. My parents and I disagree over what we should do with him...
They want to take him with us on vacation, and put him in a pet carrier. But I am afraid that he is far too old for that, and that something might happen to him while we're in the airplane.
I wanted to have the animal hospital take care of him, but again, he is very old so he needs special attention.
Any ideas on what to do with our dog? If you have a really old and fragile dog, it'll help
Thanks (link)
Im sure animal hotels would know how to take care of your dog. If you are worried that they cant, tell them the "special care" and im sure they would check up on him more than occasionally.



ok this is really weird but i have to pee quite a bit. and when i do go its not alot of pee. like, half the time it usually is. It hits me suddenly. There is no "oh...i might need to go to the bathroom soon..." its more like "CRAP! I GOTTA PEE AGAIN!" it hits suddenly with no warning and i work two jobs and go to school. I can't keep taking a piss every 2 hours. do i have overactive bladder syndrom or something else? what can i do about it? btw im 20/female and im not sexually active. (link)
You might have a bladder infection. I suggest you go to your doctor.


Ok can you define these for me?
hand job,
blow job
head

and which one is oral sex?
thanks! (link)
Handjob:When another person (woman or man but preferabla a woman) rubs a man's penis with their hand, usually to make them reach orgasm.

Blowjob/head:slang for fellatio. Its when a person sucks on a penis.

They are both Oral sex.




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