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Last Update: January 5, 2008
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Ok. So i'm not a virgin, but my boyfriend is, and I want to have sex with him and all, but I don't know how to start off. Like I don't want to have to tell him what to do ("ok, take your pants off", "Come here," "do this do that") you know?
So is there anything I can do to make him want to be in control. We talk about it and stuff and he tells me all that he WANTS to do, but it never happens. Does that mean he's scared of me? I like him and all and think hes overly sexy but he's not that experienced and stuff. I don't know how to get him to warm up to anything either. I've always gone out with more experienced guys.
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okay this may sound bad, but if he is a virgin then odds are that he is gonna get pretty hard pretty fast so dont worry about getting him excited. also just kinda go with the flow if he wants you on top do that if not just pull him on top of you adn just take his penis with your hand and guide it into your vagina. if you are using condoms you can put it on it'll make him feel more wanted. once he is in you you can put ur hands on his lower back and help guide him in and out of you. hope this was helpful
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I started in a new school and I was really happy to make friends, and even though my friends are pretty nice (atleast to me...) they kind of take advantage of me. I buy lunch and they bring theirs, so they always ask for money and promise to give it back, but they usually don't. I was okay with it the first time, but a dollar every day adds up. How can I let them know that I want my money back, or how can I refuse to lend them money? (link)
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Simple. bring just enough money for your lunch. so then wehn they ask you for money you can honestly say your broke. you don't have to lie and they can't take advantage. As for the money you have alreasy given them, if you don't want to make a big deal about it then just let it go and consider it a lesson learned. other wise just bring it up as nicely as you can and hope for the best.
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I started working at this place, and gave one of my co-workers my number. we text everyday & he calls me, we talk online, etc. & at work we're always flirting. the only thing he is he's 5 years older then I am (making it illegal) he turns 21 about two months before I turn 17. We're of different cultures & religions, but I can't help falling for him.
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I would say that as long as your parents are okay with it then go for and and just wait to have sex until you turn 18. the only thing that is illegal is sex. its not illegal to date.
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-I NEED TO GET THIS 0FF MY CHEST.
okay so i like this boy, lets just call him [C]
well ive liked c befor and he liked me to, well up until one day, one of his friends where all like; you cant like him he's like a brother to you, well i guess after that happend he stoped likeing me and started to call me "LIL SIS" i dont get why i guess cause he didnt want his BOYS saying things or picking on him i dont really know. well after that he got a 'GIRLFRIEND' so he deff didnt like me, but i still had a BIG crush on him i prob liked him for about three years until last year i stoped likeing him. well now ive seen him around alot and we kinda hang out. -I'M REAL COOL WITH ALL THE PEOPLE HE HANGS WITH-
and i'm starting to like him again, the thing is i know he doesnt like him exsept as a friend, I'M ALREADY STARTING TO SUPPER LIKE HIM;;
i try making him like me i wright him on myspace, & [T R Y] to make him keep talking to me like bring things up like how was your day and stuff, we only talk for about 2o mins then i'll wright him and he will just read it, [WHICH SUCKS CAUSE HES THE ONLY PERSON I WANAA TALK TO]
IDK i just dont want to start liking him all over again and get hurt.
my advice is how do stop liking this boy
or NOT GET HURT?
-please please please answer this question i dont care, whatever you have to say anything can help me at this point just please let me know.
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Oh trust me, I have had the same problem with someone lets call him [I] try not to get discouraged and just think its better to have him in your life as jsut a friend or a "brother" than not at all. and if it is ment to be then it will happen in its own time. i know this isn't very helpful, but i hope it gives you a little hope.
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what are the chances that i'm pregnant if..
- we used a spermicidal condom, which was put on before any contact.
- he pulled out when he orgasmed.
- afterwards we checked the condom and filled it with water to see if there were any leaks. there were none.
- i didn't have sex during my most fertile time.
- i peed before and after.
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odds are that you aren't however you hsould also go on the pill. and just so you no, peeing doesn make a dffference, you don't pee from your vagina
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my bf wants to try anal. i thought he was kidding because he always said no, it's gross. i guess not this time. i really don't want to. for so many years of being anemic and constipated from my diet, the idea of a penis being shoved up there.. is not appealing. i've had friends say it's not pleasurable and everything. that it's only good for the guy because it's tight. he 'missed' once and that was a bitch.
so what's your anal experiences? horrible, good? :/ (link)
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my anal experience was not good. i was giving my boyfriend a blow job and he wanted more so he picked me up and put my on my stomach and i thought he was just going t do me from behid but he did anal and it hurt. it only lasted like 2 thrusts and it hurt soo much. so i just pushed him off and got on top of him and had regular sex, but when i went t the bathroom it hurt so bad and there was a little blood and it hurt for a couple days. i do NOT recomend it
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i have a very long penis (20 and a half cm) which is good for my girlfriend, but it is also very thin, which is bad for me. I don't feel a lot of pleasure from sex. Is there anything we can do to make either her tighter or me thicker? (link)
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sart having sex in the regular missonary possition but then riase one of her legs closer to her head and move it to the side, it will make her tighter and it'll fel bette for both of you.
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I was wondering when you have sex without a condom
Does it feel better or more different for the girl or the guy?
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sex without condoms is soooo much better. but only do that if you have both been tested for STDs and are on birth control. otherwise try studded or textured condoms to help mx things up a little.
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