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I started working at this place, and gave one of my co-workers my number. we text everyday & he calls me, we talk online, etc. & at work we're always flirting. the only thing he is he's 5 years older then I am (making it illegal) he turns 21 about two months before I turn 17. We're of different cultures & religions, but I can't help falling for him.
advice? =/
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I would say that as long as your parents are okay with it then go for and and just wait to have sex until you turn 18. the only thing that is illegal is sex. its not illegal to date.
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i've always believed this quote:
age is an issue of mind over matter; if you don't mind, it doesn't matter.
-Mark Twain
i would hate to ever point anyone in the wrong direction, but it's basically all about what your hearts wants, and that's something you can do nothing about. as an example, i have a 16 year old friend who dates a 39 year old, and they're very happily in love. i myself have dated 20 year olds ever since i was 13 (i developed prematurely). i can understand where it turns into a taboo, but life is about what makes you happy, not anyone else. just make sure he's sane and normal above all else. Good luck. <3's.
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I don't know what state or country you live in. You really should look up the age of consent where you live. There are charts online that will answer this for you. In the United States someone 16 or 17 could date a 20 year old in most states. If memory serves me right, even a 21 old could be dated. The laws are normally set up so someone in high school couldn't date a teacher. Since most starting teachers are 22 or 23, I'd think the situation may not be as bad as you currently believe.
here is the link to wikipedia.
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according to it the age of consent in new york is 17. laws always change though, so it wouldnt be bad if you research it on your own. I hope i was help.
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continue to flirt
if you're willing to take the risk [and he is aswell] then go out but don't make it public untim you turn 18 .
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