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BLAH B0YS SUCK!-:[
-I NEED TO GET THIS 0FF MY CHEST.
okay so i like this boy, lets just call him [C]
well ive liked c befor and he liked me to, well up until one day, one of his friends where all like; you cant like him he's like a brother to you, well i guess after that happend he stoped likeing me and started to call me "LIL SIS" i dont get why i guess cause he didnt want his BOYS saying things or picking on him i dont really know. well after that he got a 'GIRLFRIEND' so he deff didnt like me, but i still had a BIG crush on him i prob liked him for about three years until last year i stoped likeing him. well now ive seen him around alot and we kinda hang out. -I'M REAL COOL WITH ALL THE PEOPLE HE HANGS WITH-
and i'm starting to like him again, the thing is i know he doesnt like him exsept as a friend, I'M ALREADY STARTING TO SUPPER LIKE HIM;;
i try making him like me i wright him on myspace, & [T R Y] to make him keep talking to me like bring things up like how was your day and stuff, we only talk for about 2o mins then i'll wright him and he will just read it, [WHICH SUCKS CAUSE HES THE ONLY PERSON I WANAA TALK TO]
IDK i just dont want to start liking him all over again and get hurt.
my advice is how do stop liking this boy
or NOT GET HURT?
-please please please answer this question i dont care, whatever you have to say anything can help me at this point just please let me know.
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don't talk to him anymore?
get yourself interested in another guy/guys or just concentrate on your friend/make new ones.
donn't think about him, and it especially doesn't help when you talk to him because it just sparks the feelings all over again.
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Oh trust me, I have had the same problem with someone lets call him [I] try not to get discouraged and just think its better to have him in your life as jsut a friend or a "brother" than not at all. and if it is ment to be then it will happen in its own time. i know this isn't very helpful, but i hope it gives you a little hope.
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sorta like what the other one said... just focus on a different guy. It doesn't need to be a guy that you have nothing in common with, it could be a neighbor... or a lab partner, or just a friend. But don't even think about "C" and whenever you think about him, pinch yourself. You'll know it will hurt, and eventually it will hurt too bad that you're going to say "ok I'm not going to think about him!!"
YOu just need something to take you're mind off of him. Pick up an afterschool activity, or hang out with your friends, go shopping, take up a sport, etc.
-volleyball2150
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okay well if you want to get over him, this is what i do.
you trick yourself into thinking you like someone else. someone you would never go out with or anything like that. and its better if you admire from afar. that way they wont get involved in the situation. eventually you stop liking the boy you really did like and this kid, you never liked him in the first place so hes easy to get over cause you admired from afar.
hope that makes sense. if not, let me know in feedback.
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