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anal?
my bf wants to try anal. i thought he was kidding because he always said no, it's gross. i guess not this time. i really don't want to. for so many years of being anemic and constipated from my diet, the idea of a penis being shoved up there.. is not appealing. i've had friends say it's not pleasurable and everything. that it's only good for the guy because it's tight. he 'missed' once and that was a bitch.
so what's your anal experiences? horrible, good? :/
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My anal expierence was on Friday...
I was WASTED, and it was a threesome.
Oh and best part it got on tape.
Yeah. Oh and im fourteen.
Dont call me a slut either.
But dont do it.
I didnt want to. I never have.
But I guess it got like shoved up there and that hurt alot..
So just stick with sex.
You will be alot happier.
And in a lot less pain.
My ass hurt for 2 days afterward.
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my anal experience was not good. i was giving my boyfriend a blow job and he wanted more so he picked me up and put my on my stomach and i thought he was just going t do me from behid but he did anal and it hurt. it only lasted like 2 thrusts and it hurt soo much. so i just pushed him off and got on top of him and had regular sex, but when i went t the bathroom it hurt so bad and there was a little blood and it hurt for a couple days. i do NOT recomend it
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Well first of all, Its all up to you. If your not confortable with it then say no and he better respect that. But here is a very easy way to make it as confortable as possable for you.
First off, Buy anal lube, None other will
Work as well and last as long. And alwassssy
use a condom. Becasue its safer, And because
Without one when he cums he runs the risk
of the sperm runing down into the vigina.
Crazy but possable. Well first ask him to put
A condom on his fingers and lube and put one
Finger inside your anal until its confortable
About for you, And then another one. Take your
Time and do this until your third finger. And then put a condom and lots of lube and try it out
Tell him to go very slow.
Dont let him put it in your vigina after unless you change the condom. It will be unconfortable
For about three times, But belive me, it does
Get better.
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Razhie has given you the best advice, please follow it. Don't do anything you're not comfortable with, especially, just because of your boyfriend or someone else's experiences.
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No one else's experiences matter hun if you 'really don't want to'.
Tell him it's just not gonna happen. There is nothing wrong with that.
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You should tell him that as much as you love him there's some things you aren't open to doing. You have given many valid reasons why you don't want to. I have a feeling if you went through with it that it would be a bad experience.
Just tell him it's not your thing and a real turn off. He ought to accept that but if he doesn't it's his problem not yours. It can be pleasurable for some peolle though. Obviously the guy likes it because of tightness. However, the woman may like how it feels after penetrated.
The thing you do need to be aware of is that it's high risk for HIV and STD transmission because the anus does tear very easily. use lots of store bought lubricant and condoms are a must. Just level with the guy about this. Don't do what you don't want to or just to please or keep him.
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ive never done it, it seems gross and weird to me
if you dont feel comfortable doing it, tell your boyfriend. he has to respect that
xxtiffany
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