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Q: Is Miley Cyrus (Hannah Montana in the Hannah Montana show, daughter of Billy Ray Cyrus) pregnant? My best friend called me today and was like, "I totally heard that Miley Cyrus is pregnant and admitted it to the world!"

I really love Hannah Montana and if Miley Cyrus is pregnant I know that will end. I also know that Billy Ray Cyrus would be really, really mad at her. It makes me wonder if she is pregnant by Nick Jonas of the Jonas Brothers because I know they went out before. Maybe Miley Cyrus is dating Nick Jonas again? I did hear that she was making out with a boy on her bed when Billy Ray Cyrus walked in on them a few weeks ago (this from a magazine like People, Life&Style, in Touch, or something).

Miley Cyrus just turned 16 in October at Disneyland in California! She's so young but I figure she might go along with Jamie Lynn Spears (sister of Britney Spears and star actress in Zoey 101), who had her baby at 16. I don't know what to think if this is true!

Does anyone know is Miley Cyrus/Hannah Montana is pregnant?!
wow sorry hun but you care a little too much. ahah um no im sure shes not pregnant cuz yeah it be on the tv and in mags. and with nick jonas? come on they are like preaching about being virgins til marriage.

Q: Okay, first I'm a girl and I'm 17. From the end of December to the middle of May, I was on and off with this girl, whose 15. I fell for her, hard. She tells me that she fell for me too. Since we haven't been together, we have been really good friends, but I'm still in love with her. We hooked up on July 4th, but that's the last time we've been intimate with each other. We flirt constantly and act like we're together just without the kissing and holding hands and what not. I keep asking her to give me another chance but she won't. Now, she doesn't want to be "gay" anymore. She tells me that she loves spending time with me and I make her happy and that it's not that she doesn't like me because she "loves" me, it's just that she doesn't want to be gay anymore. I asked her if we could just be together until I go to college, which is in August, but she still says no. I just don't understand. Every time I bring it up, she gets mad and won't talk about it. She said the only reason she has to give me is because she just doesn't want to be anymore. So, two questions. Does that mean everything she said she felt for me was a lie? And, I know I shouldn't pressure her, but how could I possibly convince her to give me another chance?
Heyy.. ok well I think your exgirl was just confused. Sexuality is a very confusing thing and well I think it was just too much for her.
You need to give her time.. You cant force anything on her so just let her be for awhile. If she wants to be with you she will come to you. Truth will tell all in time. Til then I wish you the best of luck.

Q: so in going to my first concert next week and i'm excited and nervous at the same time. It's like, a hardcore, emo concert. what should i expect? and should i wear a hoodie? it is going to be really hot? its in new york
um my first concert i wore a sweatshirt.
it wasnt too good of an idea because you get really hot and sweaty and i ended up taking it off and making this guy hold it lol.
um well if its hardcore then there are probably gonna be mosh pits.
which is the most amazing parts.
you dont have to mosh but its really fun so yeah..
and there is body surfing and shit like that.
so have fun.
:]

Q: I have been to 3 holloween stores in my town and have tried on numerous oostumes.. but they just don't fit me. I'm looking for someone original, cute, sexy, but not too sexy, and body flattering.

I'm a female, 17, about 5'4, and about 107lbs. I have a tiny body, not really much of a butt, but I do have some boobs :).

I'm looking for something for holloween. Maybe even a "do-it-yourself" holloween costume.

HELP! IDEAS! Anything helps :)
Thanks,
Costumeless.
um whats not body flattering?
um kinda sound like me but i probably have bigger boobs cuz i have really large boobs for my body size and shape. yeah um like if you like your boobs show them off.
im being a cop. :]
you could be a
-flight attendant [mile high club]
-nurse
-french maid
-bunny
um yeah anything actually good luck.
hope i helped!

Q: i was the person who asked you about the birth control, im on ortho tri cyclen. do you think this weekend i should get up and take it at 6:30, or would it just mess things up, or would it just not have an effect? if i plan on having sex not this weekend, but next.
um i think you should just find a time you can take like everyday because it kinda confuses everything when you have different times. if you can wake up everyday at 6:30 then yes i would do it then this weekend. if you cant then find a new time or you could also keep doing your thing.
because like 4 hours really doesnt matter taht much.
hah.
hope im helping! :]

Q: when your getting fingerd what do you do? just sit there???? wouldnt that be akward lol
haha um no.
like usually when i get finger i like to make out.
like its really hot.
um he will be fingering you and you just like makeout with him and enjoy it.
when it feels really good pull away; moan a lil and tug on his hair.

Q: im a 20 year old male and i live in Canada
im dating a 14 soon to be 15 year old girl.
i wanna know if this is wrong? and if i have a problem.
i didnt think i did, but all my friends say i do.
so now idont know
i really love this girl
um.
do you just want to fuck her?
cuz that is what most guys your age do with young girls.
they dont really care about them.
so its kinda surprising you say you love her.
how did you meet her?
and like how often do you get to see her.
love is such an over used word.
i really dont think you love her.
adn if you do then wait for her.
cuz in 5 years it wont seem as weird if you guys date...

Q: 18 year old female.

okay so i have been taking birth control for about two years now, im on the one called ortho-tri cyclen lo. i first took it when i was suppose to. i think i started it on a sunday? but now i get my periods on wednesdays. your suppose to have your period when taking the white sugar pills right? well when i have my period i am taking the dark green ones for about 4 days, and then i'm on the white ones. i haven't missed a day, and so i dont know what could of gone wrong. is this bad? im still a virgin but am planning on having sex within the next couples weeks, so will this birth control still be effective? i get my period exactly when im suppose to, on wednesdays every month. the thing is during the week i take it at about 6:30am and on the weekends i take it at 10:00am. considering i dont want to wake up that early, because i wouldn't be able to fall back asleep. i know this is bad, but the weird thing is that i still get my period when i'm suppose to! i should be getting my period tomorrow, and i'm pretty sure i'll be taking the dark green one's for about 4 days, then on sunday, when i start a new pack, i'll start taking the white ones. and my period will end around next tuesday or wednesday. i talked to my parents two weekends ago, and was like "i think i should go to the doctor because i think somehow my days got messed up on my birth control, and i want to see if i can switch the times i take it.." and both of them said, "i think you will be fine. the doctor will probably want to see you in a couple months anyways just to check up on you to see how you're doing" they know im not sexually active but they dont know i am planning on having sex in two weeks. so now i'm really worried that the birth control i'm taking wont be effective, and of course we WILL be using a condom too, but i'm a paranoid freak haha and do not want to get pregnant. so will i be okay if i have sex in two weeks? will the birth control be effective like it should be? THANKS [:!
hi.
im on ortho tri cyclen.
and i get my periods on wednesdays also.
i dont know what the problem is there.
its completely normal.
yeah and um your pills are effective lol.
and yes your gonna be very protected when you have sex. especially if your using a condom also.
so just dont worry okay!
:]
have fun!

Q: I have this girlfriend that was 11 and had a 15 year old boyfriend that she kissed and i'm going out with her and it kinda grosses me out that she went out with a 15 year old so what should i do?
um nothing.
she only kissed him.
and im sure it was like a peck or something because she was only 11.
its not like they had sex.
um if it continues to bother you tho you should probably tell her or something. and really its not gross she went out for a 15 year old. i bet she felt cool. its nasty for the 15 year old though because thats kinda fucked up. 11 year old girls havent even went throught puberty!

Q: i saw you answer a question on someones question and you said "also im on birth control that is actually like made to clear skin while keeping you from getting pregnant. [wonderful right?]
yeah so I would just say go to your doctor! =]"


may i ask what birth control? I am going to go on birth control in a week or so here and would love to know more about it :) as I am going on it for clearer skin and ovarian cysts. thanks
omg im so sorry.
i havent been on here in such a long time.
but yes im on ortho tri cyclen. =]
its amazing.

Q: does anybody have any ideas of what i could be for halloween iam a 19 year old female if that helps.
On Halloween anything goes!
So have fun with it..
I would suggest:
Cop
Nurse
Pirate
Ref

yeah those costumes can get pretty sexy so have fun. =]

Q: Hi,
ok so you know how those girls in high school or models or actresses have perfectly clear skin?
how can i achieve that?

also, i have dry skin meaning when i use powder coverup or foundation it usually leaves dry skin
=[[
any ideas? i'd greatly appreciate it.
Heyy!
okay I have a perscribtion from my dermatalogist for acne and it keeps my skin really clear.
also im on birth control that is actually like made to clear skin while keeping you from getting pregnant. [wonderful right?]
yeah so I would just say go to your doctor! =]
good luck

Q: Now I've had sex before, and it's not like this is my first time or anything. Lately, I've been wanting to have sex with this guy in my car. (My house has been ridiculously crowded.)

But I want it to be completely unplanned... well for him at least. I don't want to be like "Hey, let's have sex in my car!". I want to kind of just have it happen, but I have no idea how to move things from the front to the back seat, or how to just park. Or even how to just start driving aimlessly.

How should I get it into the backseat without saying it? Better yet, how do I get him to just drive around with me aimlessly?
haha.
alright..
so i've had sex in backseats plety of times.
okayy so just be like "lets go on a drive"; "lets to the the state park"; "lets go look at the trees changing color" or something stupid like that. or anything random.. maybe like ask him to go to your grandmas house or to the store thats awhile away but actually yeah your not going there.
but your gonna want him to drive.
and as hes like driving you should start kissing him.
just a couple times and then start to undo his pants..
yeah and give him road head.. [blowjob while driving]
things will get hott and then you should suggest you pull over somewhere. thats where you guys get in the backseat and have hot dirty sex!
ahaha.
good luck.
have fun.
=]

Q: im 15 and i have a serious boyfriend.
but i really wanna experiment with girls.
me and my girl friend hooked up a while ago when we were drunk but that was just a dumb thing.
when i say i wanna experiment i mean like eating eachother out, strapons, etc.
i know i dont have feelings for girls im not bi or gay, but i feel like the sex part would be cool because girls know what they like.

what do i do about this.
is this weird or common?
i think about it all the time.
hahah WHOO!
okayy yeah im 15 also and I feel the samee way!
but with me ive actually done it.. [no strap-ons tho]
but yeah I know how you feel.
I consider myself bi-curious. Extremely bi-curious.
Most would say bi but im not comfortable calling myself bi yet; even tho everyone else is.
It doesnt matter tho as long as your secure with yourself.
&& yes i think its a very common thing.
ive made out with most of my friends; we just think girls are attractive.. [I sometimes think more than that but yeah].
but why wouldnt we be attracted to girls?
THEY ARE HOTT!
and theres something wayy different about them then guys.
and thats things we appreciate.
like how soft and gentle they are, the way they smell, the curves of their body, they way they want to look pretty...
those are things guys just dont have.

but anyways um yeah i saw just be comfortable with yourself. experiment a lil or alot.
have fun!

Q: I am 17 years old and I'm seriously considering suicide. I've already been through some tough times with my ex-girlfriend, we had so many things planned out for the future and she left me for her ex. I found another girl I like but she's been playing games with me and I'm just sick of everything. Part of the reason I want to do this is because I get jealous very easily, so when I see her flirting with someone else it really upsets me. Now I'm only a Junior in high school, but I've been through alot of adult situations. I just want to know the quickest, easiest way to do it. I would appreciate advice on how to handle the situation properly though if anyone has it, thank you.
Hey.
I know how you feel.
I even asked how high you would have to jump to make sure you died. [7 stories]
But really suicide is not the answer.
Your young. You have so much life left to live.
&& everything happens for a reason.
She wasnt your soulmate and a girl is still out there looking for you.
I believe that everyone has one soulmate and one only so if you died she would be left with nobody.
If that makes any sense to you.
Suicide is also a really selfish thing.
Just think about your parents, your friends, family. They love you and you would be greatly missed. I know you probably dont care or believe me but alot of people would miss you.
I used to think all the time how many people would come to my funeral if I died and I thought like proably 10 but thats not what it would be like. I still think about suicide alot but I cant do that to my dad. Im all hes got. && my mom would like go into depression again. Im just not that selfish.
I dont think you are either..
I know you can get through this.
but if you really think you cant and there is nothing at all to live for then I would suggest a blow to the head. That is how most guys kill themselves. Its really fast and simple. Most girls dont because it doesnt look pretty and they are too scared.. I resorted to jumping because I couldnt pull a trigger, swallow that many pills, drink that much, or tie a strong enought knot.
&& just because I would love the feeling of free falling and then that shock you go into once you hit the ground.
anyways I hope I helped.
Im hear to listen if you even need to talk.
Best of luck.

Q: is it okay to wear a cute dress [not the fancy formal ones] to school?




how about heels?
yeah just wear whatever you want.
but probably not a dress and heels, thats a lil too over the top unless its like dress up day.
but I do think you can wear heels to school. just not all the time.
but its fine if its casual..
as long as your comfortable with yourself.

Q: when you curl your eyelashes do you curl before mascara, after, or both?
Actually I do it before and after...
I think doing before helps though because it makes them nice and curled. Once you have on mascara its harder to perfect your eyelashes.

Q: Oh kay.. lol.
well, im 14/female.

sooo, i lost my virginity to this guy back in march, he was 17 at the time. well, me and him before we had sex had hooked up numerous times, but after we had sex, he like just stoped talking to me.... ! it hurt ause i did give him my virginity and he was a freaking dick about it, but w.e i got over it.

then not so long ago i found out by my friend that he has done that to alot of virgins, hit it and quit it :/

anywaysss. i dont hold grudges, so when he said sorry about a month after we had sex i accepted it.

we talked from time to time very briefly. and then after i while we never talked! and just yesterday he wrote me a message out of no where.

what do you think he wants from me? (:
thanks for tha help.

ohhh, and we only had sex once but he is exstreamlyyy sexy, ahah. if he wants to do it again should i?
Well hun, I know what he wants from you.
&& thats sex.
He thinks that since he got it from you once he can get it from you again.
And again, and again.
I know because its happened to me.
I was 14 when I lost my virginity; he was 18.
We had sex about 6 times and then he freaked out and we stopped talking. Were kinda cool now where like we randomly talk but its still not the same.
I hated him for a long time because he made me feel special and I gave him my virginity and I still have feelings for him a year and like a month later..
What im trying to say is that I dont think your really over him because everytime he talks to you you still get that special feeling..
Thats why if he asks to hangout and have sex your gonna really wanna do it.
&& its really up to you.
If it were anyother guy other than the guy who took your virginity I would say go for it and have sex because friends with benefits are fun.
But since its that guy its gonna bring back all those emotions. && its gonna be really hard.
I hope the best for you.
Im here to talk and listen anytime.
I hope I helped.

Q: Does sex hurt the first time you do it? I've never done it, but stories of pain sort of make me nervous. Does it?
No not really.
If your gonna have sex you really shouldnt worry about it or anything like that cuz thats gonna make it hurt alot more.
You should be really relaxed.
&& WET!
if your not than make sure you use lube.
That will ease the pain.
And alot of foreplay will put you in the mood.
&& if you use tampons and/or have gotten fingered then you probably wont have your hymen.
When I had sex for the first time my hymen was already broken either from tampons or doing the splits or from horseback riding so it didnt really hurt that bad for me.
If it does hurt than try switching positions.
Girl on top is a good nonpainful one..
Hope I helped.
If you have anymore questions then just ask.

Q: ok i dont know what sex, blow jobs, vagina, and cum and sperm is but i do know what a pnis is ... so tell me what it is please and also what is a dildo? what is a condom? what is a vibrater? what is a breast? and last but not least... i know what hormones r and all but i am sorta confused... i know i am ready for sex so don't tell me i am not or i will hate you i am horny and my friend says i need sex
OMG, are you serious?
If you havent got it through your head im gonna tell you again. YOUR NOT READY FOR SEX. You might want it, but you are farrr from ready!
wtf are you 12?
You cant even spell PENIS.
&& since you know what a penis is im guessing your a guy..

The girl below me explained everything very well.
She only missed the blow job.
A blow job is oral sex.
it's where a girl would suck your dick and make you cum..




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nicoledanielle
Hii. My name is Nicole Danielle.
I have a fucked up life.
I have been through alot and I hope I can help you with any of your problems because I have probably been through them also. If you have any questions/comments let me know. :D
I dont want too get to personal because I tend to do that too quickly.

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