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Okay, first I'm a girl and I'm 17. From the end of December to the middle of May, I was on and off with this girl, whose 15. I fell for her, hard. She tells me that she fell for me too. Since we haven't been together, we have been really good friends, but I'm still in love with her. We hooked up on July 4th, but that's the last time we've been intimate with each other. We flirt constantly and act like we're together just without the kissing and holding hands and what not. I keep asking her to give me another chance but she won't. Now, she doesn't want to be "gay" anymore. She tells me that she loves spending time with me and I make her happy and that it's not that she doesn't like me because she "loves" me, it's just that she doesn't want to be gay anymore. I asked her if we could just be together until I go to college, which is in August, but she still says no. I just don't understand. Every time I bring it up, she gets mad and won't talk about it. She said the only reason she has to give me is because she just doesn't want to be anymore. So, two questions. Does that mean everything she said she felt for me was a lie? And, I know I shouldn't pressure her, but how could I possibly convince her to give me another chance?
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Heyy.. ok well I think your exgirl was just confused. Sexuality is a very confusing thing and well I think it was just too much for her.
You need to give her time.. You cant force anything on her so just let her be for awhile. If she wants to be with you she will come to you. Truth will tell all in time. Til then I wish you the best of luck.
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Well, this is very though. I mean maybe she is attracted to guys now and that's all. If this is the case you have got to let it go somehow.
No. It doesn't men it was a lie. She probably felt these things for you. Over time she might have just changed her sexuality.
Maybe if you keep spending a lot of time with her it will work. don't keep asking her about it if it makes her mad though. Maybe if you stop asking and just go with the flow she will realize she still likes you. If not there isn't really anything you can do about. Remember there are always other fish in th sea to choose from. If this girl doesn't love you find somebody better who loves you back.
Hope this helps. =]
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