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girl on girl
im 15 and i have a serious boyfriend.
but i really wanna experiment with girls.
me and my girl friend hooked up a while ago when we were drunk but that was just a dumb thing.
when i say i wanna experiment i mean like eating eachother out, strapons, etc.
i know i dont have feelings for girls im not bi or gay, but i feel like the sex part would be cool because girls know what they like.
what do i do about this.
is this weird or common?
i think about it all the time.
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hahah WHOO!
okayy yeah im 15 also and I feel the samee way!
but with me ive actually done it.. [no strap-ons tho]
but yeah I know how you feel.
I consider myself bi-curious. Extremely bi-curious.
Most would say bi but im not comfortable calling myself bi yet; even tho everyone else is.
It doesnt matter tho as long as your secure with yourself.
&& yes i think its a very common thing.
ive made out with most of my friends; we just think girls are attractive.. [I sometimes think more than that but yeah].
but why wouldnt we be attracted to girls?
THEY ARE HOTT!
and theres something wayy different about them then guys.
and thats things we appreciate.
like how soft and gentle they are, the way they smell, the curves of their body, they way they want to look pretty...
those are things guys just dont have.
but anyways um yeah i saw just be comfortable with yourself. experiment a lil or alot.
have fun!
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lmao I'm sorry but you sound so much like me haha. Apart from the overly homophobic, pratically every girl has some kind of attraction to other girls. - and we all appreciate.
It is so unbelievably common it's suprising it's not more talked about. A lot of people are in the same boat though. The people giving you advice included.
People who frown upon same sex attraction are either questionning themselves and are having trouble accepting it - or they are homophobic. That's the truth in it.
You don't have to know what you are right now. Just like people for who they are. If you like them, you like them - gender is not important.
You have a boyfriend too. Stick with that. You will learn important relationship stuff that will apply to any relationship you have.
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Actually its quite common almost every girl that i know has said or still says i wanna try out girl on girl. I also had a problem like that also in the current relationship i am in now. But your right it doesnt mean your bi, it just means you wanna try something new.
I did it with my best friend and yeah it was only experimenting i also told my boyfriend cause the last thing you want is your boyfriend thinking your a lesbian or rumors saying that you cheated on him with a girl lol.
By the way some guys are turned on by that (their so weird) lol.
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relatively normal.
Everyone has a variety of sexual desires. The thing that separates most people from each other is what theyre willing to try or contemplate liking.
For instance, I'd hazard a guess that less than one in five people who identify straight and have possible interests or who could have interests in the same sex ever even consider exploring it.
Well, its probably more like one in four for girls, and one in twenty for guys. Men and women are just as image conscious, but in different ways.
What do you do? Well, if you want to experiment you probably will at some point. Its not something you have to go out and figure out at 15, though. One of the biggest misconceptions of teenage hood is that you're supposed to know who you are in life by the time you hit puberty. Every single person who pretends otherwise is lying to themselves and everyone else (possible exceptions would include people who are just incredibly stupid and one dimensional, and practically never mature emotionally past age 13)
Are you gay, or bi? Who knows, and it doesnt matter right now.
Figure out what you like, and don't worry so much about labels. Instead of trying to figure out "am I this, or am I that" you just just answer questions like "are you" with "I am me" answers.
"Are you bi?"
"Well, Im kinda interested in girls."
"So, youre bi"
"Not really, just interested"
Though, some good general advice for right now.
Work on relationships. Don't care which sex you choose, but at 15 a good thing to focus on figuring out is how to coexist with another person. Date people for a good while, pay attention to them, learn what ticks you off about people and what you like and can live with.
It will serve you better later in life, as most girls begin to find in college that the guys they are attracted to aren't the guys they want to date, and have no clue what to do. Its usually because they don't have a relationship past 4 months in experience to tell them that the bad boys and the popular kids don't always make the best dating material.
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well...depending who you ask it might be a little weird to some people bc it's not really talked about a lot.some people might not have any problems while others might freak out on you.im 16 and i have friends who have the same feelings you do so i would say no it's not weird.your just wondering and that's pretty normal for someone that's young like you or i.
i hope i helped ya and if you have anyother question just ask or look me up on facebook under renee schwartz from lockport ny
bye
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um, to some people that would be considered weird.. like thinking about it i guess isnt weird but if you acted on it.. then i think it would be ha.. it sounds like you have bi feelings even though you say you arnt im not saying thats bad but to some people that might be odd.. im a girl and i can tell you i have made out with a girl at a party once but iv never had feelings like those
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