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LMAO...what does that mean? (link)
laughing
my
ass
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im 15 and i have a serious boyfriend.
but i really wanna experiment with girls.
me and my girl friend hooked up a while ago when we were drunk but that was just a dumb thing.
when i say i wanna experiment i mean like eating eachother out, strapons, etc.
i know i dont have feelings for girls im not bi or gay, but i feel like the sex part would be cool because girls know what they like.

what do i do about this.
is this weird or common?
i think about it all the time. (link)
Actually its quite common almost every girl that i know has said or still says i wanna try out girl on girl. I also had a problem like that also in the current relationship i am in now. But your right it doesnt mean your bi, it just means you wanna try something new.

I did it with my best friend and yeah it was only experimenting i also told my boyfriend cause the last thing you want is your boyfriend thinking your a lesbian or rumors saying that you cheated on him with a girl lol.

By the way some guys are turned on by that (their so weird) lol.


13 years old.
And im like 5'6 or 5'5.
Im 120 Pounds.
55 kilos.
Is that skinny? or normal. (link)
Hun your totally normal
Im in high school my boyfriend and all my friends are 16 or 17 (guys) and they are 120 pounds too
so dont worry about it your fine


Me and my boyfriend are starting to have sex. He tried sticking it in but it only got in like halfway and it started REALLY hurting. like it was a deep sharp pain. I know my hymen hasn't been broken, and I know thats why it hurts.
Anyway, we tried again last night to try and push it in further. It got a little further but it still really hurts. Is there anything I can do to break my hymen myself? I heard if I finger myself, It will break.. But I don't believe that.
PLEASE HELP. (link)
I heard that if you do sports such a bike riding and exercise and such you break it. but you can break your hymen but you would have to have a long finger (lol) it only breaks on some people.



i really like my new boyfriend but when i asked my friend to hang out with us he was really mean to them. he's nice to my pther friends so i don't know why he wasn't nice to these friends. they've been my friends for a long time, but my boyfriend makes me very happy. they both told me they hate each other. i think sooner or later they're gonna make me pick sides. so who's more important? my friends or my boyfriend? (link)
Friends are always way important. then a boyfriend because when this boyfriend might leave your friends will comfort you.

But if you want to keep both, You talk to both of the talk to you boyfriend why does'nt he like the try talking to him about why doesn't he like your friends tell him to give the a chance then least he can say is NO.

& about your friends do the same, people take things different ways maybe he was kidding or something or it just takes time to get used to a group of friends. Maybe he gets jealous cause their your friends, boyfriends often get jealous of their girlfriend's friends because you might not be with him at the same time your with your friends. they want you alone with them sometimes.

My boyfriend did the same. My best friend is a guy and my boyfriend is really jealous, & i talked to him about it and he said he was jealous cause my best friend gets to do things that i dont get to do with him(boyfriend), (long time ago) and so did my best friend he was mad cause i wasn't spending that much time with him. So they didnt like each other but i talked to the both and now their best friends :D



My friend and her boyfriend had sex and I dont know if he came on the bed or not. A few days later she had a sleepover and I slept in her bed. Is there a chance I could be pregnant? My period is late and I'm kinda worried cause' I'm only 16. (link)
Hun their is no way his cum can even get inside of you vagiuna, only magically, espically if it was a few hours later cum dies if it touches the air in about 2 to 3 hours im pretty sure it either dried up or maybe something else.

dont worry about your period sometimes that happends its normal



-how do you know when a guy is completly finished? ( I gave my boyfriend a handjob last night and he cummed but i kept going for a while and then i asked him if he wanted me to stop and he said no ) .. did he ever finish to begin with?

-what makes a guy go wild over a girl. lol i love my boyfriend soo much and i just wish i knew like he would choose no other girl over me.. like what could keep him wanting more of me. ( dont havta explain anything just some ideas.)

- can you tell when the guy precums?


thanks soo muchh! :] (link)
well when i make out with my boyfriend he gets hard.i dont knwo what i do i guess its just the way you make out.sometimes you need to talk dirty to them.


15/f

okay ..
this is probably gonna be kinda sorta long but ohh mann. so like,
I just got my first kiss on valentines day this year and I was rlly relieved cuz i thought i would NEVER get kissed and omg i was SO nervous .. well like, im rlly scared to do anything sexual for some reason
im like, prude
ha i dont WANNA be but i dont wanna be a slut either
well .. the guy i kissed is the ONLY guy ive kissed and yeah, weve kissed more than once
but never made out

and okay .. i just have a few questions i would like answered.

1. how do you makeout and is there a wrong way to do it ?

2. about blowjobs ? is it like, nasty ? is there a wrong way to do that ? and how do you do it?

3. handjobs? same concept.

4. sex ? does it rlly hurt for girls as bad as everyone says it does .. i wanna do it butttt im more scared of it hurting then getting caught or anything.


if someone could answer any of these questions, i would greatly appreciate it
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1.makeing out is easier then it looks.all you do is massage your tougue with his.dont be too sloppy and dont stick your tougue down his throat and its all good.& be sure not to open your mouth that wide.practice with your hand,it kidna helps.

2.it depends how you take it.DO YOU THINKI TS NASTY OR NOT?its just going up and down the dick with your mouth there is no speacial way to di it unless you play with the dickhole a bit and likc it and shit.but be ready cause he might sqirt out some skeet.

3.hand jobs its doing it with your hand.going up and down the same thing.except not with your mouth.

4.Well everyone's first time is gonna hurt.you need to pop the cherry and it will bleed a bit.but when it goes all the way it will hurt alot.but if you finger yourself it will not hurt that much.if your kinda loose.but if you are then it wont hurt as much as it will normally hurt.


HOPE I HELPED A BIT:]


i'm a virgin and i'm gonna have sex w/ my boyfriend and i'm really afraid it's gonna hurt. and what if he can't get in me because i'm too tight?! can that even happen? and i know to tell him to go slow blahblahblah. im just mainly concerned he cant .. get in me lol (link)
He will get in you
but he has to take it slow
if you dont want it to hurt that much then you
should tell him to finger you cause that
loosens you up a bit or mayeb yourself.
if you finger yourself it wont hurt as muchas it
will when you have sex.but it will still hurt when he stick it in.because your cherry will pop.


i had sex 2 days ago (saturday), and today (monday) i think i got my period, which is a giant relief. but i was wondering if maybe this just happens sometimes after sex and if it could be a sign that im pregnant, and it really isnt my period? thank you

-worried :( (link)
Well sometimes when you have sex the guy pops your cherry pops and blood comes out.but jsut a little bit but if it comes out the 2 two times you had sex.i think you should go see a doctor.


my boyfriend has a hairy dick.
is that normaL? i'm confused,
i find that discusting.
and he wants me to blow him.

and i wont if he has a hairy dick.
what should i do? (link)
Yes its normal,every guy hits puberty and they get
hair down there.every guy does.unless....
they shave it.

I think you should tell him that in order to bj
that he needs to shave his pubs.
me and my boyfriend talked aboutt he same thing
but he shaved it as soon as i told him i thought
it was nasty.
SO JSUT TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT,& HE WIL SHAVE IT FOR YOU.


i love it when this boy plays hard to get but when i can have him i dont want him AT ALL

why?! (link)
Hahahahahaa.
well im liek that!
but it just means you like
the chase you like to play dangerous
and hard.
YOU LIKE THE GAME.


theres this guy that i have been hanging out with and im really starting to like him. But, he says that he likes my friend. but when he told me he liked my friend the convo was just like
HIM- who do you like?
ME- umm i dont know. you?
HIM- guess
ME- Izzy
HIM- i dont know. maybe.
ME- well the only girls i know that you know are izzy and me. you like izzy?!
HIM- maybe.
ME- im gonna get it out of you. you do!
HIM- yeah.

that was pretty much the convo on the phone. but like.. i dont know what he sees in her. i mean no offence but she isnt the prettiest and shes a total B**ch to like everyone. the only thing about her that i see is that she can be funny at times and that she has a good body. but anyways...

im really starting to like him but i dont know if i should tell him since he told me he likes her. but like its driving me crazy and like i keep falling for him more and more cause like whenever we hung last week we went to the movies a lot but like i was always cold so he pretty much just like held me and its not like i asked him to. but then he tells me he likes her. so like i dont know what to do. cause i would LOVE to go out with him and stuff... but he just doesnt know i like him and now hes going to mexico for a week and hes coming back next week. but i want to go to a Cubs game with him.. but i dont know if i should invite him or not.

so what do you think i should do? should i invite him and keep hanging out with him? and should i tell him i like him? or what? im so confused. please help. (link)
I think you that the guy likes you but is just too afraid to admit it.But it seems he likes you and your firends but maybe your firend,he likes more.you shouldnt stop hanging around him cause maybe soon enough he'll tell you.wait a few days till he gets more flirtatous with you and then you pop out the question?do you like anyone besides izzy?& maybe he'll tell you.




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