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okay ..
this is probably gonna be kinda sorta long but ohh mann. so like,
I just got my first kiss on valentines day this year and I was rlly relieved cuz i thought i would NEVER get kissed and omg i was SO nervous .. well like, im rlly scared to do anything sexual for some reason
im like, prude
ha i dont WANNA be but i dont wanna be a slut either
well .. the guy i kissed is the ONLY guy ive kissed and yeah, weve kissed more than once
but never made out
and okay .. i just have a few questions i would like answered.
1. how do you makeout and is there a wrong way to do it ?
2. about blowjobs ? is it like, nasty ? is there a wrong way to do that ? and how do you do it?
3. handjobs? same concept.
4. sex ? does it rlly hurt for girls as bad as everyone says it does .. i wanna do it butttt im more scared of it hurting then getting caught or anything.
if someone could answer any of these questions, i would greatly appreciate it
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1.makeing out is easier then it looks.all you do is massage your tougue with his.dont be too sloppy and dont stick your tougue down his throat and its all good.& be sure not to open your mouth that wide.practice with your hand,it kidna helps.
2.it depends how you take it.DO YOU THINKI TS NASTY OR NOT?its just going up and down the dick with your mouth there is no speacial way to di it unless you play with the dickhole a bit and likc it and shit.but be ready cause he might sqirt out some skeet.
3.hand jobs its doing it with your hand.going up and down the same thing.except not with your mouth.
4.Well everyone's first time is gonna hurt.you need to pop the cherry and it will bleed a bit.but when it goes all the way it will hurt alot.but if you finger yourself it will not hurt that much.if your kinda loose.but if you are then it wont hurt as much as it will normally hurt.
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1) Making out... Im going to agree with the poster below me. It kind of comes naturally. Different people have different preferences, and as you make out more you'll figure it out (and probably start correcting guys so they kiss the way you like)
2) Anything involving sex can be nasty if theres bad hygine. Never be afraid to tell a guy to go take a shower. If youre past the point when youre comfy naked with whatever guy, feel free to shower with him to make sure hes clean. Other than that, no oral sex isnt nasty. Sex can get messy sometimes, but thats part of the fun.
As to specifics, we cant tell you exactly how to give blowjobs on this website. The poster below me put a link, if that doesnt work then google "blowjob instructions" and theres a wealth of information out there.
3) See the last paragraph from 2. Actually, just reread 2 and replace every instance of the word "blow" with the word "hand"
4) Sex hurts a varying amount your first time. Some girls are smaller inside than others. There is the hymen to consider, but that membrane varies in thickness and size from girl to girl. I know some girls who didnt hurt or bleed much at all, I know girls who hurt or bleed, one or the other alot. I know girls who both hurt and bled alot.
The bleeding part, thankfully, only happens your first time. Its not that big a deal.
Hurting... hmm.
You are a certain size. So outside of your hymen, if hes thick enough and you're tight enough, it can hurt. And you will have to stretch a bit to fit him in.
Youre built to stretch like that, so likewise its not a big deal. Just make sure whomever takes it slowly.
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1. Making out should come natural to any person. Just do what feels comfortable and try to keep your lips relaxed, this makes them softer and easier for the guy as well as yourself.
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3. I find that when my gf gives me a hand job its always a little dry, if you like to get your hands wet then you should like this one. Try using a message oil or lubricant, though saliva can work just as well. Focus on the more sensitive parts such as the head or right below it.
4.It is true that sex for the first time can hurt. Just tell him to go slow and pull out as soon as it hurts. Lubricant can also help for this, but after a while the pain all goes away and nothing but pleasure remains.
Hope I could help o^-^o
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