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Me and my boyfriend are starting to have sex. He tried sticking it in but it only got in like halfway and it started REALLY hurting. like it was a deep sharp pain. I know my hymen hasn't been broken, and I know thats why it hurts.
Anyway, we tried again last night to try and push it in further. It got a little further but it still really hurts. Is there anything I can do to break my hymen myself? I heard if I finger myself, It will break.. But I don't believe that.
PLEASE HELP.
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I heard that if you do sports such a bike riding and exercise and such you break it. but you can break your hymen but you would have to have a long finger (lol) it only breaks on some people.
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I doubt the problem is your hymen if you got it in half way. Also, it wouldn't cause a deep sharp pain. The same thing used to happen to me when my boyfriend and I first started. The pain used to be just...horrible. Like you said, very sharp. But anyway, your problem is that you're not wet enough causing too much friction and makes it much harder for him to get in. Either you aren't turned on enough which can be fixed with a little extra foreplay or you can just use lube. Doing both would probably be best. If you just use lube without being ready for sex (not turned on enough) it will still hurt a little. So you need to figure out how to get you in the mood more. foreplay is the best...having him eat you out before had will do wonders. Always works for me
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putting in a tampon will you wont know cause your already bleeding
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Masturbation can break your hymen, as can bike riding, horseback riding, or general exercise. However, what you heard is true, penatration with a finger can cause your hymen to break just as much as penetration with a penis. Good luck, be safe, and hope i helped.
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