theres this guy that i have been hanging out with and im really starting to like him. But, he says that he likes my friend. but when he told me he liked my friend the convo was just like
HIM- who do you like?
ME- umm i dont know. you?
HIM- guess
ME- Izzy
HIM- i dont know. maybe.
ME- well the only girls i know that you know are izzy and me. you like izzy?!
HIM- maybe.
ME- im gonna get it out of you. you do!
HIM- yeah.
that was pretty much the convo on the phone. but like.. i dont know what he sees in her. i mean no offence but she isnt the prettiest and shes a total B**ch to like everyone. the only thing about her that i see is that she can be funny at times and that she has a good body. but anyways...
im really starting to like him but i dont know if i should tell him since he told me he likes her. but like its driving me crazy and like i keep falling for him more and more cause like whenever we hung last week we went to the movies a lot but like i was always cold so he pretty much just like held me and its not like i asked him to. but then he tells me he likes her. so like i dont know what to do. cause i would LOVE to go out with him and stuff... but he just doesnt know i like him and now hes going to mexico for a week and hes coming back next week. but i want to go to a Cubs game with him.. but i dont know if i should invite him or not.
so what do you think i should do? should i invite him and keep hanging out with him? and should i tell him i like him? or what? im so confused. please help.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? RespectLifexo answered Tuesday August 14 2007, 3:14 pm: I think you should give it a little more time, hang out a little bit more then tell him. Yes, i think you should invite him and have fun at the game. If he starts showing you signs that he likes you, then i think you should go ahead and tell him. From reading that convo, it seems like that guy is pretty confused. I think its your perfect opputunity to get to know him better and be closer. Then if your ready, you can tell him how you feel. You never know, maybe when you hang out with him more and more, you realise that he's not your type. Anything can happen! Good luck and dont hesitate to post in my inbox if you have any questions. [ RespectLifexo's advice column | Ask RespectLifexo A Question ]
elysia1312 answered Tuesday August 14 2007, 2:01 pm: I think you that the guy likes you but is just too afraid to admit it.But it seems he likes you and your firends but maybe your firend,he likes more.you shouldnt stop hanging around him cause maybe soon enough he'll tell you.wait a few days till he gets more flirtatous with you and then you pop out the question?do you like anyone besides izzy?& maybe he'll tell you. [ elysia1312's advice column | Ask elysia1312 A Question ]
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