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Hello, My name is Sierra. I am a high school student. But please dont let that fool you. I've been through more in my life then a teenager should have to. But i've grown and matured from thoes things. I'm open and honest, I love to give advice. I'm a very nice person. I have a wonderful stedy boyfriend whom i love more then anything.
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I'm in my 20s. She said she was 20 and is actually 18 and a senior in high school.
Those are the very basic facts.
Now, I'm the kind of person who lying is a big deal to me. Trust overall is a big deal. And people who violate that... lets just say that I may not bring it up, but I will remember this.
I like her. I like spending time with her. But I dont know if I should heed the giant warning sign that is finding out she's still a high school chick (and lying about it) and walk now.
Shes not the only woman I'm seeing at the moment. And no, she doesnt know that.
Risk getting deeper or run away now? What do you think?
Well first of all, Its best you cut your ties with her because underage is never a good thing, Maybe with another year if you really like her. And think of it this way, If he gets mad that your seeing someone eles she could very eaily get you in big trouble.
i have gym everyday, and my shoes, always end up smelling, because of like my sweat or whatever. what do i do to make it better?
Try buying baby powder and putting in your shoes to keep them dry.
ok when a guy fingers a girl for the first time what does it feel like cause my boyfriend wants to but im nervous to. and what do you do about "the hair" im so lost about this stuff
Well you could always shave or trim. and the inside of a viginia feels warm and wet and soft kinda. You could always feel for yourself, Thats not wrong, Its your body, Do what you want. And if your nervous or uncofrtable then just wait.
Ok, my thighs are strange. Like, I know CAN get them thinner and more fit, but, it seems like they stay the same all the time. I won't lie, I don't do much workout, my body is naturally slim. But my thighs like curve OUT so it makes them look chubbier. Are their any workouts that will help tone them down a bit?
I'm not sure really. But i will say, Your a girl, You should have curves, Its what makes us girls not guys, Its what makes up so dang pretty amd feminine.
its a bubble after sex. its like my lip blows up somewhat
I'm sorry but i looked it up and did'nt find anything.
Well if your lips just inlarge after, But go down later on. Then thats somewhat normal, Because all girls lips inlarge to create lubercation. But if its not that, Then i dont know.
okay so i have love handles, but yet im skinny
and it bugs me so much cuz i can never wear belts it just like sticks out. and it also bugs me how not so skinny ppl dontt even have them, it seems like im the only one
so is there a way i can get rid of them
like a certain excericse. or diet
and how long would it take?
I'm not really sure. But i will tell you this, Most guys like that. Its a great thing when girls have curves. You should feel lucky to have the curve but still be skinny. Embrace it, Work it. :]
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I need tips on how to be a better kisser!
Preferably from guys but girls are welcome too.
I always thought I was good then I got a somewhat mean comment not too long ago.
So any tips, that you know are good, would be great.
Well i know slower kissers are always better. But here are some tips.
I know my boyfriend likes when i suck on the tip of his tounge, Or if i very lightly bite his lip. Or maybe right before you go to kiss, Kinda (very sexy like) get really close and slowly pull away and then let him kiss you after. Or suck his lip. Maybe even try putting ice in your mouth and giving it back and forth while making out.
I recently met a wonderful, mature guy in his forties (I'm in my thirties) and we spent a great night together and a long late breakfast the next afternoon in which we told each other quite a lot about our past relationships. I divorced four years ago after a marriage of seven years. This marriage was to my first boyfriend, my first sexual experience, and turned out to be somewhat abusive. I tried to get out of the marriage twice, first by simply telling him I wanted out. I stayed that time because I couldn't handle how much it seemed to hurt him to leave. The second time, I went off to an artists' colony for a month and actually cheated on him, the first time I'd ever done this before or after. I told him immediately and it was the end of our marriage. One of my friends thought the cheating was the only way my husband would have let me go.
So I told the new guy all of this. He had said something about my being mature enough to get out of the marriage or something that I thought wasn't quite right, wasn't quite honest if I agreed, so I told him of the cheating so he'd really know what happened and told him I suffered untold guilt about it for a long time.
Well now I'm wondering if I made a mistake, if my desire for honesty will simply scare him off instead. He took what I said very kindly, seemed to understand, but now I'm worried. Maybe it's just that I'm waiting for that call to see him again that's gotten me so worried. In any case, would you recommend this kind of honesty on my part in the future (on future dates, if this one doesn't work out)? Shouldn't I keep things open? Or am I just shooting myself in the foot.
Thanks,
handwringing
Well personally i think your very brave. We are only human, We mess up sometimes, But you told him and owned up to it and felt guilty, So dont carry that weight on your shoulders anymore.
But as for this man, I do belive that it might be a bit frightening for a man to hear this so soon. But here is the thing, You were honest, And that is a very good thing, Its smart to be honest right out, It sets you up for a honest realtionship. And if this man is right for you he will see past it and calm down and try to be with you. But if not, Then he was not who you should be with anyway. Its good to allow that person to know who you are and what you've been through. But understand that if there are things in your life that you dont feel confortable talking about, And that thing cant effect a new reationship. Then dont ever feel dishonest for not speaking up. Because its your life and whatever happened had nothing to do with that new man. I hope i can help.
ok, i have a bf. but he never tlks 2 me. then this other guy came... i guess i fell in luv with him. and i luv him more than my bf!! the new guy always tlks 2 me, flirts with me, and all of that junk, u kno. but my bf doesnt. i dont wanna break up with my bf cause i dont wanna go breaking anyones heart... WHO SHOULD I CHOOSE!?!?!?! pls help me!!
Follow your heart and go with who you think you'll be happy with. No matter what, Someone has to get hurt, Its a part of life. And belive me, He'll get over it.
hi my name is elizabeth. my question is about what am i doing wrong as to why can i get a boy friend? i have had some boy friends befor not many but some. all i can really remember was how happy i was when i had one. its been almost a year since my last boy friend and i HATE it i mean yeah my school has got a lot of good looking guys. i try to get there attintion but it seams like it never works. i mean im a nice girl,i get told alot im pretty,sweet,and caring so why cant i get a boy friend my longest relashonship has only been months and year sometimes boys message me on facebook or somthing saying thay think im cute and we should hang out. yeah some of them are my age but i dont like them like i dont think there cute. am i just being selfish and thinking about all myself or what? and all i am somtimes is sad when i hang out with my friends and thay have boy friends and im always all alone yeah it gets old and it starts to hurt =[and all i ever want is to just be happy again so PLEAS some one give me some advice.
All i can really say is that i know it hurts sometimes. But be patent. Honestly, Sometime its good to be single for a long time because everytime you get attacted to someone you give away a part of your heart and when you meet the love of your life someday, Dont you want him to have your whole heart? And while your waiting, Try working on yourself. Love yourself and become your bestfriend, Because once your confortable and happy with yourself, That shines through and atracts people alittle more. And you could never truely love someone and be happy with someone if you cant love yourself and be happy with just yourself first. And if your more then just a pretty face and a great catch, Then when you finally find someone that wants you You'll know its for your heart and brain as well as body, And then you'll know its more then just a crush. And when you do find someone interested in you, Dont just jump because you finally found someone. protect your heart and make him work for it. Because if he sticks around and works for it then you just he's worth giving it to. Ad if he does not stick around, Then you just saved yourself a heartbreak.
What does it mean to 'live life to the fullest'? How does a high school freshman live each day to the fullest?
This qoute is different for everyone. It does not mean go sky diving or rock climbing. It just means look at things in a postivite manner. And live life the best way you know how and to where your able to look back with no regreats. And love yourself and everyone around you and treat them as if its might be your last day (remember to show them you love them) stand up for what you belive in and never do something if it gos against your morals. Thats how i see it.
I'm in 10th grade and i know last year as a freshmen i tried living life to the fullest by getting myself out there and making a bunch of friends and joining things and at the end of the year i realized i did a bunch of stuff that was not important to me and i made a bunch of friends that were not real to me. And it was not to real me. So this year i just did what made me happy. I dont have a bunch of friends, But i know that i love the life i live. Just do whats best for you and what makes you happy. Dont try and live up to the media's standars, Or someone eles. Live up to you'rs and you'rs only.
Okay well I'm 13 and I've had acne scince I was early 12 years old.I think I'm quite pretty but I think I could reach my full potentiol without the acne.I was wondering if anyone has something free or very cheap [like under 5 bucks] and hopefully natural but doesn't have to be for my acne.I'll love you forever I swear ! lol so please help.
Sadly the product i use is 9 dollars. But let me tell you, Its amazing. It last for about two months and a week. Its a pill and cream. Its called 'Natures cure' you can find it at walmart or walgreens.
Ok,I'm in 6th grade and there is this 8th grader at my busstop & at my lunch who keeps calling me firecritch cuz I got red hair,what do I do?
Just try ignoring it and eventually he'll stop. People who pick on people only do it for the reaction, If you dont give him a reation then he'll get no pleasure. If this does not work talk to a teacher or something. Weather you do or not dont worry about that, Dont let it get you down. Love your body for what it is. :]
everytime i have sex i get this werid bubble thing on my lower area. At first i thought it was because he was going to hard or because it was dry but i got it twice what the hell is it?
Is it a bubble after sex, Or a bubble feeling during sex?
EVERYTIME i eat chocolate, i get pimples. What causes this?
I'm sorry to say but i'm puzzeled, Chocolate does not cause pimples. Maybe it could be from touching your face with dirty hands?
If your looking for a good face cream, Try natures cure. It was my life saver.
Self injury-ic
i need help, anyone willing to give advice on cutting?
I'm not sure of what exsactly your asking. But i'll just tell you everything i know in hopes that i can help :]
Well i used to cut myself as well, I quit about two years ago. I never really understood why i did it but i just wanted something to make me feel better. And well i realized, Cutters cut because they dont feel that can control anything in thier life and so they want to be able to control something, Thier physcial pain. And something about seeing pain helpes them feel like they can actually control it. But belive me, Your not in control at all. And it could only get worse. Its so hard to stop and to allow yourself to heal but its completly worth it. When you allow yourself to figure out what it is that is making you feel so down, And find a healthy way to fix it, Such as talking to that person. Or confiding in someone close to you. Or maybe taking up a hobbie and learning to channel anger that way. Maybe even trying to get to know God, As crazy as it sounds, That was a huge part in what got me through. There are amillion ways to get help, And belive me you are never alone in this, You wont belive how many people are going to or have gone through what you are going through. I really dont know what eles to say, But if you have any other questons please write back. :]
what does fingering mean?? i was reading a book and these two people were making out and the guy put his arms under her shirt and it said he was fingering her bra. what does that mean? and what does it mean to pop your cherry?
Well no a days fingering is what you do when i guy puts his fingers in your vagina and moves them in and out. But back in the day and still used now its also a term for useing fingers to open something to do something.
Fingering her bra ment trying to undo it or touching it.
i know this is a weird question but what does and orgasim feel like.
i really dont know how to explain it. But you can tell when its coming. You can slowly feel it and it gets more and more intence in the good way and then it gets REALLY good and then it releases and makes you really realxed.
15/f
okay, so this is probably going to sound really bad but i need help. i dont really know why but i love "getting around"- not sleeping around or anything though. but like every guy that im into ill make out with them and i always let them finger me. but girls are starting to hate me and saying im a whore but guys really like me. and i know most of them just like me cause ill let them play around with me but i really dont mind- i really like it actually. but after most weekends i look back on what all i did and i let like at least 1 guy finger me a weekend- a lot of times more. is that really bad or am i just having fun? and feel free to be honest. thanks!
Honestly, I've been there. And while it may be fun and all, But you will regreat it someday. Like maybe when your ready and have a real realtionship, No guy will take you seriously because you atract what you put out. If you dont repect your body and slef, No one eles will eaither. And belibe me there is nothing better like a man who worships your body but respects it and is someone who will stick around. And also, I know you may think i'm being dramatic but belive meee if you dont smartin up will you move on to other things like sex. And that is a very bad place to be. Worrying about STD's and wondering if your pregnet or if that person you slept with will stay around if you are. And when you fall in love someday, Your going to wish you had a clean slat that way you can enjoy that intimate stuff with the person you love.
This is currently what i am dealing with. I was lucky to not be pregent or have STD's by the time i stoped being so stupid and learned to caryy myself recpectfully. And it was not long before i met myself the kind of guy every girl should have. Before i just got a bunh of gusy who could carelss about me other then when we did stuff. And i still deal with the sterotype, And its not something fun.
And just so you know, I'm not some woman pep talking you. I'm a 16 year old who knows eaxcastly what you are going through.But i've been there and back and only hope that you dont end up having to go through what i did.
What are some interesting and fun ways to kiss your significant other? any unique tricks or tips you know of? share 'em
I know my boyfriend likes when i suck on the tip of his tounge, Or if i very lightly bite his/her lip. Or maybe right before you go to kiss, Kinda (very sexy like) get really close and slowly pull away and then let him/her kiss you after. Or suck his/her lip. Maybe even try putting ice in your mouth and giving it back and forth while making out.