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So she lied about her age.
I'm in my 20s. She said she was 20 and is actually 18 and a senior in high school.
Those are the very basic facts.
Now, I'm the kind of person who lying is a big deal to me. Trust overall is a big deal. And people who violate that... lets just say that I may not bring it up, but I will remember this.
I like her. I like spending time with her. But I dont know if I should heed the giant warning sign that is finding out she's still a high school chick (and lying about it) and walk now.
Shes not the only woman I'm seeing at the moment. And no, she doesnt know that.
Risk getting deeper or run away now? What do you think?
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I see two huge problems in this question.
She lied to you about her age. She's 18, and you're in your mid 20's. There goes problem one.
And here is problem two: You're seeing other women.
You're both lying to each other. Whether or not she's asked doesn't mean anything. You're still lying to her. And she's still lying to you.
I think that it's wrong of you to date someone that young. That'd be like me dating my 22 year old brother, and I'm 16. I honestly don't think you should keep seeing her. She lied to you about her age & trust is a big thing. I can agree with you on that. Liars will make it nowhere in life unless they become lawyers.
Ditch her.
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Well first of all, Its best you cut your ties with her because underage is never a good thing, Maybe with another year if you really like her. And think of it this way, If he gets mad that your seeing someone eles she could very eaily get you in big trouble.
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She deliberately lied to you. You deliberately withheld information.
Neither of those are good signs.
Move on.
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ok she might have lied about her age, but you arent being very honest yourself by seeing other people while seeing her. You dont know the reasons she had to lie about it. I think you should just get past it. I understand you find lying a big deal but im sure she finds cheating a big deal also. Whats best is just to forget about it.
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If you like her enough and you are doing practicallt the smae thing if you are seeing another woman while seeing her! unless u guys decided to see other pple too specifically...if she means enough to you then talk to her about trust and your guys' relationship (including the other woman your seeing and btw STOP that!) have im sure it will all work out :)
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I think if you liked her before you knew she was 18 and in highschool then you should still like her now ,because age really doesnt matter if you like the person , she may have lied about her age but she proablly just did that becuase she knew that you wouldnt give her a chance if she told you she was 18 and still in highschool.so i think you should keep going for it and see how things end up . goodluck.
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im sorry, you may not like what im gonna say but about the 5th thingy (she isnt the only woman your seeing) if you dont like lying so much then why are you lying?? just a question..think about this--this girl lied to you about her age..are you hurting?? how bad would she be hurting when she finds out your with two at the same time?? But about the age thing---i say that if you are 22 or under then go for it..if that is what you want..but if you are over that then dont do it...if you runaway and you really like this girl though, you might regret it...so if you really like her then stick around and see what happens...hope i helped!!
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OH I AM SORRY I MISUNDERSTOOD!!! but i say that you need to figure out who you like more..if this young girl is something special then hang on!! you dont come by them often!! just make sure you pick real soon!! because it isnt fair to either the girls or you...
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