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firecrotch


Question Posted Sunday November 4 2007, 5:38 pm

Ok,I'm in 6th grade and there is this 8th grader at my busstop & at my lunch who keeps calling me firecritch cuz I got red hair,what do I do?

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LOL_x0x answered Monday November 5 2007, 5:41 pm:
First of all, I believe 6th graders are too young to be using this site.


But to answer your question regardless...
The best and most effective way to get a bully to stop, Ignore him! You see, when you ignore him, you're showing that his calling you names doesn't bother you. When he thinks it doesn't bother you, he'll get bored and stop.


But if you must acknowledge them, say something like, "Ok, whatever you say." Then smile and walk away. This is kind of the same technique. (showing it doesn't bother you, bully getting bored, etc.)


If this doesn't work, tell a teacher or an adult you trust.


-Laura. (15-f)

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nowaaay answered Monday November 5 2007, 3:59 pm:
Just try ignoring it and eventually he'll stop. People who pick on people only do it for the reaction, If you dont give him a reation then he'll get no pleasure. If this does not work talk to a teacher or something. Weather you do or not dont worry about that, Dont let it get you down. Love your body for what it is. :]

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sportzchick143 answered Sunday November 4 2007, 10:15 pm:
Tell him you're not Lindsay Lohan.. or go to a guidence counseler.. because if it's continuous it is considered harassment.. just make sure that it doesn't get around because that could possibly make it worse.. ask the counseler to say someone overheard it and reported it.. good luck!

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Matt answered Sunday November 4 2007, 10:02 pm:
Punch his lights ouuu-erm-tell a teacher.

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thefish answered Sunday November 4 2007, 9:51 pm:
This is sexual harassment. It's against school rules and the law. Ignoring him is fine for a while, but it will not make the problem go away, and confronting him may lead to a fight, so, I suggest you go to a guidance counselor and tell them what is going on. Hopefully, the boy will be punished. It's possible the school will then give everyone a lecture on sexual harassment--listen to it because it's important. If nothing is done, tell your parents. They can talk to the principal, and believe me, they can put a lot of pressure on the school! Your school should be a safe environment, so if nothing was done about it and I were your parents, I would be very upset and want to fight for you.

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