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creating a ... Me and my bff Sami are so close and I want us to find someone that is perf. for us to create kind of like a clique,but not really really mean or anything. If you've heard of the book The Clique Series by Lisi Harrison that'd help cuz I want it to be like that!
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I know what you're talking about, and I think it's great that you guys want to have something like that. But clique's are known to cause a lot of drama and trouble and do nothing but shut other people out. I guess it would be OK if you guys weren't to rude to everyone else.
But if you wanted to make new friends I'd just try and get to know some of the your classmates better. Or if you do after school activities just see who has a lot of things in common with you and work from there. ]
I'm not much on cliques, I like being popular by being friends with everyone. But I think I can still help you try to form a clique. Follow these steps...
*Always be nice to everyone you meet, you never know who's going to be your next best friend or your worst enemy. This covers both bases.
*Join extracurricular activities that you enjoy, this will allow you to make new/more friends (a.k.a possible additions to your clique).
Both of these steps should help you in finding a clique. Good luck! ]
I know how you feel. Me and my best friend kinda want our own clique to but its hard. Try mingling together with a bunch of different people.
Join some clubs or even invite some people to have lunch with you two.
The best way is to become close with people from another clique.
:)
Easier said than done though.
Good luck! ]
If you are looking for another person to add to your "twosome" then I would advise against it unless you are looking to add more then just one person. Threesome groups never work out. There is always one person that feels left out.
But if you really want to go forth with it, then you could do these steps:
001. talk to everyone around you and just be nice everyone you come across. that way you can gradually become friends with more and more people which might encourage them to come to your "group"
002. join a club or sport, that way you can sort of join into another cliche ]
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