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who do i choose?
ok, i have a bf. but he never tlks 2 me. then this other guy came... i guess i fell in luv with him. and i luv him more than my bf!! the new guy always tlks 2 me, flirts with me, and all of that junk, u kno. but my bf doesnt. i dont wanna break up with my bf cause i dont wanna go breaking anyones heart... WHO SHOULD I CHOOSE!?!?!?! pls help me!!
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I think you already know. You go with your heart and from what I can tell, your heart is leading you towards this new guy who shows you some of the attention you need. Your current boyfriend is just going to have to deal with it. I don't think you're gonna break is heart because to be honest I don't think he's too bothered either way.
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You aren't going to break anyones heart.
Unless this guy actually takes you to movies
or to dinner, you just have a hallway romance.
Go for the other guy, the one you have now probably won't even notice & if he does whats he gonna do?
Not talk to you? No lose. :)
Good luck.
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Follow your heart and go with who you think you'll be happy with. No matter what, Someone has to get hurt, Its a part of life. And belive me, He'll get over it.
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Ok first off, if your boyfriends doesn't even talk to you then he's not acting like a boyfriend should. In a realtionship communtiction is a very important key to making it work. If you don't talk then you can't resolve problems, get to know eachother, the list goes on. If you find yourself liking this guy more then your boyfriend and he has qualties that you are looking for in a guy, he seems to be trying to treat you right. Then hey I say go for it. You only live once, no point in staying in a realtionship that you are unhappy in. Do what makes you happy, and if you think you might want to stay with your boyfriend. I would suggest talking to him and asking him why he doesn't really talk to you too much and getting his side of the story on everything.
Good luck. hope i helped some!
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If your boyfriend never talks to you, he really isn't much of a boyfriend -- at least not the kind of boyfriends I'm used to. So I think no matter what happens, you need to break up with your boyfriend. You deserve better than that. And as far as breaking his heart, I don't really think it will honestly, since you two aren't very close. The other guy you like sounds much better, and I think you should go for him.
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Choose the other guy. It sounds like your boyfriend treats you badly whereas this new guy is some kind of prince charming. Nobody can beat prince charming.
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Forget about the other boy for a minute - If you aren't bonding with your boyfriend etc, you're going to have to break up with him anyway.
Use your common sense. It's not fair on you to be with someone for the sake of it.
Yes, he will be hurt, but that's life. The longer you leave it, the more hurt he will be.
I can't tell you what to do with the other boy.. it seems as though he has already won you over.
Follow your heart. Don't ask strangers who should be your boyfriend.
Best of luck.
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Well, I base my advice on the typing ability and mental capacity of the questioner, so I believe that there is only one being that you can effectively "luv".
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i say fallow your heart
go with who makes you feel happy
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