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what am i doing wrong?
hi my name is elizabeth. my question is about what am i doing wrong as to why can i get a boy friend? i have had some boy friends befor not many but some. all i can really remember was how happy i was when i had one. its been almost a year since my last boy friend and i HATE it i mean yeah my school has got a lot of good looking guys. i try to get there attintion but it seams like it never works. i mean im a nice girl,i get told alot im pretty,sweet,and caring so why cant i get a boy friend my longest relashonship has only been months and year sometimes boys message me on facebook or somthing saying thay think im cute and we should hang out. yeah some of them are my age but i dont like them like i dont think there cute. am i just being selfish and thinking about all myself or what? and all i am somtimes is sad when i hang out with my friends and thay have boy friends and im always all alone yeah it gets old and it starts to hurt =[and all i ever want is to just be happy again so PLEAS some one give me some advice.
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All i can really say is that i know it hurts sometimes. But be patent. Honestly, Sometime its good to be single for a long time because everytime you get attacted to someone you give away a part of your heart and when you meet the love of your life someday, Dont you want him to have your whole heart? And while your waiting, Try working on yourself. Love yourself and become your bestfriend, Because once your confortable and happy with yourself, That shines through and atracts people alittle more. And you could never truely love someone and be happy with someone if you cant love yourself and be happy with just yourself first. And if your more then just a pretty face and a great catch, Then when you finally find someone that wants you You'll know its for your heart and brain as well as body, And then you'll know its more then just a crush. And when you do find someone interested in you, Dont just jump because you finally found someone. protect your heart and make him work for it. Because if he sticks around and works for it then you just he's worth giving it to. Ad if he does not stick around, Then you just saved yourself a heartbreak.
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I know how you feel. I use to want a boyfriend so badly besause I felt left out and weird and always wondered what was wrong with me, I mean my friends all had thier fair share of ones. Then I asked my friend what I could do to meet more guys like her. She said just be yourself, be more outgoing. So actually that very same day I went and was more outgoing and ended up talking to a complete stranger at the store that i thought was cute and after small talk with him everyday i went there (fyi-he worked there) he asked me for my phone number. We dated for about two months. so from all that i leanred you just have to go for it, you think a guy is hot and seems nice at your school go talk to him ask him what he's up to, hint around to hanging out. Just be confident in yourself and it will make guys be confident in you. Do not get so down on yourself becuse you don't have a guy, trust me one of these days you will meet the guy for you. It all just takes time, so let it.
Good luck. Hope I helped some!
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The guys in your year probably see you more as a friend or maybe they dont think you would like them back. You should get talking to new people, hang out with guys you like. Hang out as friends first and maybe some of those friendships will go further.
Go out to new places and meet new people, if you join a new club (like any after school activities) then you will meet people there.
Dont try so hard to find a boyfriend, be happy meeting new guys as friends at first and it may develop into something more =]
Hope this helped
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Well, you could always try going out to new places to meet new guys that do not go to your school. Maybe to parties that your friends invite you to, the movies, dinner, bowling, a walk, or basically anywhere where there are a lot of people.
Another thing is that you could get your friends to find a guy for you that they know. There's nothing wrong with this since I have been hooked up with a guy before.
You always have to remember that there is nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend. People go years without them, including myself, and we all turn out fine. Just wait patiently and your guy will come.
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