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I was on my vampirefreaks profile and went on my boyfriends profile and I looked @ his favorites and he only had one person on it so I looked to see who it was because I thought it was me but when I looked I seen a diffrant girl there I was shocked so I went 2 her profile and she also had him on her faves and it hurt me he says he loves me and everything but I think he's cheating on me because I was talking 2 him on the phone and he told me NOT to call him back with that number its............my....friends number. That's how he said it why did he pause for
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From what I read it sounds to me like he's cheating on you. But then again he might not be! That's what makes this so tricky.
Do you know if the girl on his profile could possibly be related to him? Or maybe she honestly is a really good friend of his. So that you don't come off as being an overly protective girlfriend I'd casually ask him who that is on his page. Maybe you could add that you'd like to meet her cause she seems cool. If he starts to get nervous and doesn't think that it's a good idea then you know something is up.
You could take him a date and make him realize how much he really does love you and how much you love him. If he is cheating then he should feel bad about it. Just let him know that you really care and if you still think he might be cheating then I'd confront him about it.
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Hey there,
From my point of view, it sounds like something is going on, but then again there might not be!
It sounds to me that when you confronted your boyfriend about the number, he's either lying to you because he's cheating on you.. or this girl really is just his friend and for some reason he's lied to you about who she is so you don't think he is cheating on you.
Either way.. it sounds like that he is keeping something from you.
I know it's going to hurt like hell if he is and you don't really want to know the truth and you wish it will all go away but really honey.. you need to talk to him about it.
There is/or no reason to cheat on someone, you can't have your cake and eat it too!! I think that you need to sit him down and ask him straight out what is going on!
If he is cheating on you, you need to make him aware that if he didn't want to be with you anymore all he needed to do was tell you. Cheating on you just made the relationship messy and feelings were hurt more then ever!
If, on the other hand, he is not cheating on you and you are certain, then apologise! Say your sorry (and mean it) and then do something special together and forget that anything ever happened!
If things do work out for the best, he needs to get rid of her in his favourites on his facebook (for good)
Hope everything works out fine hun! Good luck
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I think something is going on. Though I normally would say not to jump to conclusions, in this case, it's different because he told you not to call him back at that particular number. So something definitely has to be going on, I would talk to him about it, very soon.
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