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friend likes me but other friend likes him
ok so i'm 15, and i give advise here, but in this case, on myself i'm confused on what exactally to do... so my friend (Brian) likes me but my other friend(Becky) likes him. you can see the problem right there! haha
but Brian asked me out and i said yes, and now Becky is saying that she doesn't like Brian(she doesn't know about him liking me). i am not really sure if i like him or not, and i'm totally confused. i have also never been kissed and he knows that, and he asked me to kiss him. i'm afraid to kiss him, because of my inexperience, and because i'm not sure i like him.
i'm so confused on what to do... should i go out with him even though i'm not sure of my feelings for him?, and should i kiss him? i really want to kiss someone, but i'm so very afraid to. i don't know if i'm ready for a relationship. i'm a huge flirt, i cant stop flirting, and i hate being tied down to someone unless i really like them... like my sister, or my best friend. please help me!
i know some of you will think that i'm too young for all this, but the truth is, i'm more mature than anyone i know, sometimes even more so than my 22 year old sister.
please help!
thanks a bunch!(in advance)
xoxo
Maya
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Many people can be mature to a degree at 15, but you have to remember, this is just practice for the real world. Just the fact that you say you are more mature than anyone you know shows you still have some growing up to do, because mature people don't worry about judging a maturity level.
There is so much more you'll have to worry about down the road. Don't fret over this, there will be plenty of boys. Just take your time and don't worry about getting tied down. At 15, you shouldn't be tied down. And yes, even at 22 people can be very immature and bad examples. So if you are as mature as you say, then don't compare yourself to the example your sister has given. Look at where she has failed and do it better. An example of what not to do isn't always the best way to learn, but being mature means you know how to tell the difference and choose the right path.
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If you are confused about your feeling about him, spend a little more time with him. Your feelings will soon grow and youll know if you like him or not. Don't just kiss him because he wants to kiss you. If he likes you enough he will wait.
Think about it..if you go into the pressure of kissing him, you may fall into alot of other pressure. Do what You want.
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