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I dont know if I should like him...
Ok so there is this boy lets say bob, and i for some reason feel really attached to this kid but i dont know him that well ive only known him for maybe 4 months, and he's all i can think about, and i dont even feel like i like him as if its involentary and ive tried to like other people but he always comes right back up, hes my brother's friend and if i got together with bob my brother would be pissed. i know that doesnt matter but my brothers approvel matters to me a lot. anyway bob is an ok kid, i guess, he flirts with me sometimes, well i think? I get confused on how you can tell if someone is flirting with you haha. anyway any advice hear? what shold i do? do i really like him? am i tricking myself? what? HELP! thanks :]
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Try talking to your brother about it. He might understand, you'll never know. I think you do like this boy, if you've dreamed about him and he's all you can think about. Then again, since you've known him for such a short amount of time, you might just think you like him, but you really just wish you were better friends with him. That happens to me a lot. I'll throw myself at a guy I've just met because I think he's totally awesome, but really, I just want to be better friends. First things first, try to sort out your feelings and figure out if you really do like him. Only you can figure it out because it's your brain. After you figure that out, go from there. But if you really do like him, talk to your brother and see what he thinks about it. If you're close with your brother, that is. If you aren't, it might make things a tad awkward...
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It seems like you do like him, but with all of the other things going on {worrying about your brother} it makes it difficult for you to even think about it. Figure out if you truly have feelings for this guy. After that, try talking to your brother about it, get his point of view and make sure he'd be ok with it, because honestly, who wants their sister dating there friend, it happens yes, but, not all brothers will admit that they dont like that. After you do that, then talk to this guy about hanging out sometime. Hope I helped! Good Luck!
-Brina
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