There is this girl at my school and she is amazing. She is always happy, extremely nice...and i swear she is friends with everyone! I'm really falling head over heels for this girl. I've noticed she acts a bit different around me now a days...and I was wondering...did i do something wrong? She always looks at the floor and has trouble keeping eye contact with me. Plus, she giggles a lot? Is she laughing at me..something I do? Anyway, it would help if I knew what these meant. A few weeks ago i started a secert admirer thingy. I've sent her flowers and wrote her short little love letter/poem things. Any chance she found out or something. Should I stop with the whole 'secert admirer'...do girls think that's lame? Well, anyways, I'm planning on asking her out, but I'm really nervous and I'm not too sure how to ask. I really like this girl, i want to impress her, put a smile on her face.
Any suggestions? Thanks in advance! =)
darknessrage answered Wednesday November 14 2007, 9:11 pm: Dood, this chick LIKES you. Look at it, giggling? No eye contact? ACTS DIFFERENT? Those are all signs of űber-infatuation. She's got something with you. I don't think you really need to impress her. Just be yourself and see how she reacts. If you want to ask her out, just drop it in when you're talking. For example, steer your conversation into current movies, and casually say, "Are you doing anything this weekend? If not, we could go check out the movie." Something like that, I don't know. Work with it. [ darknessrage's advice column | Ask darknessrage A Question ]
Em231 answered Wednesday November 14 2007, 8:39 pm: Hey, my name is Em231 and I think I can help she
is not keeping eye contact with you because she has a crush on you and it is hard to keep eyecontact
because she is shy to keep her head up because she might blush if she looks at you!
i hope i helped
Em231 [ Em231's advice column | Ask Em231 A Question ]
Romance92 answered Wednesday November 14 2007, 4:29 pm: Well it seems that she obviously like you come on shes falling over you the reason why she is looking at the floor and not keeping eye contact is because she most probaly has a crush on you and the giggles are a girls way to be nervous around you which obviously means she's admireing you or crushing on you either way is great. I really truely think that you need to talk to her and tell her how you feel and well the secret admirer thing it really only works if they end up knowing who it is but really when you do tell her if you do just be yourself if you lie she will know just be yourself cause they will find out and only you lose if you do lie to her but Go for it and tell her how you feel. [ Romance92's advice column | Ask Romance92 A Question ]
Oaspring answered Wednesday November 14 2007, 3:09 pm: i think she knows if she has changed the way she acts around you and is giggling. and about the whole secret admirer thing...some girls may like it but it depends how corny and cheesy thinga are. it can be really sweet though. most girls like you to tell them straight.
thats really all i have to say :)
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adverb answered Wednesday November 14 2007, 1:29 pm: that's so adorable!!!
well she may be giggling a lot or may have trouble keeping eye contact because she probably likes you too. some girls do that...well, a lot of girls do that. if she gives signs that she likes the secret admirer things then keep doing it, but don't over do it. as for asking her out, do whatever feels right to you. [ adverb's advice column | Ask adverb A Question ]
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