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Comin out 2 parents
Hi i am a 17/F i have been a bisexual for 5 years now and i want to tell my parents but i dont know how? im afraid of their reaction. also People give me and my gf shit all the time how can i deal with out kickin ass
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try to tell your rents straight up that you're bi, they'll still love you the same... the longer you wait, the more awkward it might get. and everyone gets shit for something, just ignore them, or if you wanna fire back, or jus tell them what it is about them that pisses you off. OR just be like why do you even give a fuck about my personal life
but thats how i wuld handle it. i hope i helped you out!:]
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1) Do you know your parents general view on bisexuality? Try to find that out first before deciding because if they're extremely against it, you might have a problem. If they're not, just sit them down one day when BOTH of them are not busy and tell them (It's probably best to tell them at the same time). They're your parents and should love you no matter who you love.
2) If they have something against you, that's their problem. Don't concern yourself with issues other people have. Focus on your life. Be comfortable your gf. People who give you shit won't be able to change who you are. There will always be someone prejudice about this sort of thing. But they're going to have to learn to deal with it because it's the 21st century.
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hey, some of my friends are going through the same thing.
when you feel ready and comfortable enough to tell your parents, whichever parent you are closer to, will learn to accept you for you. i know everyone else is probably saying the same thing, but you can't help the way yu feel, and everyone deserves a shot at love.
screw all the haters. i know it's hard hearing people talk shit behind your back and everyone stares at you and stuff. but as long as you know what you want, don't let them get in the way of that.
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Hey, its really good that you've decided to tell people who you really are...
Im sure your parents will apprechaite your honesty and even if they take it quite badly, you're still their daughter and they still love you
If they really care about you then you're sexuality shouldnt matter
They're going to have meet your girlfriend sometime if yous get serious
Im really sorry to hear how people are quick to judge you
You can't really stop them from giving you crap, but you can deal with it by ignoring them or laughing it off
Dont let these people get you down cos they are pathetic.
Never be ashamed to be yourself
Soon enough, these people will get bored of making your relationship a big deal.
Just be proud of who you are; when these people give you grief, just be happy that you are you
Be happy that you aren't like them
I hope that helped and good luck =)
xx xx xx
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