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guys are soo confusing
so about a year ago i gave this boy that liked me ALOT a chance we went out for a few months and we were young and in love .. everything was perfect until one day out of the blue he broke up with me .. i was heartbroken... so we didn't really talk all like that for a while i thought i was over himand then we started talking again and the feelings came back then i made a mistake and had sex with him even though i don't regret it .. he was a virgin .. and then he denied everything even to me .. when im the person he did it with ? makes no sense right? anyways.. then he was like i don't want anything to do with you blah blah blah .. ya know the stuff guys say .. but besides that i was at his house the other day and he kissed me .. and this isn't the first time he came on to me .. alot of people think he still likes me but he just won't say anything .. what should i do? i tryed talking to him .. but talking 2 that boy .. hah your better off getting a response from a brick wall.. hes very stubborn... & maybe since i turned him down soo many times before he's doing it as retaliation? ahh idk .
i'll apprchiate the help <3 16/F
signed,
the girl who cares too much.
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This totally feels like the situation I usually get myself into! HOney, I know how you are feeling, I've been there! It was the same for me, he dumped me and then we had sex, then he didn't want me again but everyone stil thought he liked me. So confusing and so painful! One thing that I have leared, guys are not that complicated as they seem. They usually have such a lame, stupid excuse that it can't be compicated. they are just asses.
One thing you have to do is ask your self and try to answer as turthfully as possible:
Do you like him enough to try to get him back? Is it worth it?
If yes: Then you must really like (or love) him to want him that much. I think you desevere a guy who doesn't treat you that way (they are haarrrd, almost impissoble to find but once you do it was worth a wait). But you should fight for him, he is you man and then prove to him how much he means to you, guys like that!
If no: then there you go. Then you know what to do.
I know you know the answer to the question, but sometimes it's just hard to realise the truth..
goood luck and merry christmas!
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Here's what to do:
DON'T flirt back if he flirts with you, or anything like that. If he hits on you, ignore it or act annoyed. If this guy is serious to get back into a relationship with you, he'll act serious. Plus, if you flirt back, it'll give him confidence that you like him and he'll keep pushing you away. He probably likes the feeling of a girl going for him.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
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well i've definitely have never been in this type of situation, but i think he likes you. but i don't think he knows how to show it. so when he does something, he gets embarrassed. I really think he just doesn't know how to react to his feelings. you should keep trying to talk to him, but try not to do it in person. send him a text or a note, or maybe even email. most guys are more comfortable expressing themselves when they are not talking face to face.
i'm praying for you
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