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girl trouble
ok so i'm 15, lez, and there's this girl at my school who's also bi, or maybe gay and she's a junior, but is only like a year and a half older than me. she's experienced and is currently with a senior. The thing is, they've only been going out a couple weeks, the girl she's dating is a senior who is not pretty or interesting or anything, and i'm pretty sure she's just going out with her to get back at her ex. Anyways, i like her soooo much! i've never been with a girl, but she's the only thing i think about! unfortunately she's a year and a half older than me! sometimes i feel like she likes me, but we're just kind of mutual friends, we have a class together and talk once in a while but have never hung out alone or anything. Well anyways i'm just wondering whether i should tell her? or not. and if so, should i wait till i get back to school in january or should i tell her on im or something this week. My best friend is also friends with her, so what should i do? I guess these are my options:
1. tell her myself over break
2. tell her when we get back to school
3. see if my friend can talk to her and maybe hint that i like her
4. not tell her at all and try to forget about this because i have no chance with her
5. or not tell her just flirt and stuff- and if you think this is the best option, give me some tips please
*alot of people said aske her to hang out-that's not really an option, it would be way awkward, we both have our own friends
** one more question- when we are around other people and pass each other in the hall, we might talk for a second or smile a little, but if i ever just pass her we always kind of stare deep into each others eyes. do you think she will realize i like her if i keep doing this? or should a give her a flirty smile or something??
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Well, think of this...she is TAKEN. Even though you may think this senior is dull and ugly, this girl you like might not so you can't judge on stuff and accuse of a horrible thing such as using someone to get back at an ex.
Since you have a friend that is good friends with this girl, have your friend call this girl over along with you and few other friend to have like a little get together or something like that.
Don't have your friend tell this girl that you like her because she can take it as a joke or something.
So tell her over break to break the awkwardness that might happen if you tell her at school. Tell her that you like her ASAP so over break she can sort things out and calm down from it a little bit. Then have your friend invvite her, you and some other ppl for a little get togheter
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you really shouldnt try to get with her while shes in a relationship. if you are sure that its soo bad then it will be over soon, and then you can be there for her, and then tell her you are intrested.
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