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Hey, my names elisa and im 15. I decided to help people and give them advice because my fridn paige started using this website and i thought it was a good idea. If you need help with your problems just ask me and ill help you the best i can.



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Is there anyway to go in the pool or ocean with out your mascara running? I heard if you put like clear mascara over your normal stuff it would work. I use Big Lash.. i think it's from Maybalene?

During the summer, i only use waterproof mascara because it stays on even when i swim in the pool or ocean because it is resistant to water and never runs.

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I'm going to my best friends bat mitzpa. I'm wearing a black dress with a black purse, black open toed shoes, and possibly a little black makeup. Should I wear black stockings? I'm African-American and 5'5. If this helps at all, I have a scar pale scar on my foot, nice toenails, and im not dark at all- im a little darker than chocolate milk but lighter than milk chocolate.

Dont wear the stockings because than theres too much black. Including the black make-up. As soon as you start to dance, you will wind up taking off your shoes, put socks on if she has them and if you want to bring them and dance like that. Also, dont over due the black with the stockings. DONT WEAR THEM. and go lightly on the black makeup and try to use a different color over the eyes.

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I am 14 years old and haven't gotten my period yet. I am pretty sure all of my firends have gotten it by now. I am also one of the oldest out of my firends (cuz i was born in 91 and everyone else born in 92 but whatever) I play 3 sports and i am wondering of something is wrong with me? My mom got it when she was 16 but my sister got it when she was 11.

This is just happening because you are very active. Dont worry, youll get it.

Good luck

♥elisa

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what do you use to make your hair really soft and pin-straight? like what's the best straightener, shampoo/condtioner, straighting balm .. anything?! my hair is naturally really wavy and is really dry and damaged. anything i can do to fix that (except get a haircut? cuz i've done that lol) please let me know!

Well before i started to use the CHI straightener that im using now my hair used to be like that. Its not dry and it doesnt feel dead and disgusting.

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ok well i have this friend who wont bring me my really expensive tiffany ring that i love a lot and it means a lot to me... howww can i tell her to bring it to me???

haha

well shes bring it today so dont worry

hhaa i love you paigeyy ♥elisa

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well..i just had this break up with this guy..right.and it was really upsetting and i coodnt really get over it right away and now its been like a few weeks later and ive heard that one of my good friends was like flirting with him or w.e and she said that she wanted and suchh..but yea i dont really know what to do because i really liked him a lot n stuff and i dont know what im supposed to do..can u help me?

This type of thing happens. But look at the bright side, your young which means you have plenty of time to look for guys. As of now, just see what happends and let her be a bitch and flirt with him. He will probably end up not likeing her and then you will be over him and on to someone new!

Good luck and im sorry =[

♥elisa

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I have very oily hair. Thing is I wash it everyday, so I don't know why this is happening. Anybody have any ideas or ideas of products I can use to reduce the grease. Thx in advance & I promise to rate.

Well, try using a different shampoo and not so much conditioner. Also, scrub very hard with the shampoo to get it as clean as possible. When all the shampoo is out your hair should feel rough and thats when you put the Conditioner in. Dont put a lot. Onlu put a little. Also, try reducing how many times you brush it and touching it becasue the oil in your or somebody elses hands get stuck in your hair and creates grease. Same follows as the brushing.

=] Good luck. ♥

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well i wanted to lose like...a couple pounds...and i know it was bad but i only did it for about a week and a half....i went anterxic.....after i got done with my week and a half...i was going to eat but,watch what i eat....well now that i am trying to eat...i dont get hungry...i dont get that stomic feeling anymore...is this normal?? will i get it back?

Well in the first place you should have not of gone anorexic because that could have been one of the problems no matter for how long or short of a time it was. Also, insteaed try to eat healthy and cut down on the snacks in between meals during the day. This includes the little snacks and the portions of meals. But now you should almost me forcing yourself to eat because of what you did. Your appetite will probably come back.

Good luck ♥

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ok so I straighten my hair in the night b4 school but i duno when I leave it let up it gets sweaty and then it comoe back wavvvvy. My hair doesn't need straightening but it's easier to coomb//brush and it luks better..
so my question is how will i keep my hair straight during the night? Doo I put it in a bun or do i use a bandana? HELP!!!

I do the same thing. I leave it down and its not as wavy. And then in the morning before school i take like to seconds to fix it up and what not. Try it i think youll have luck with it

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Hey,I was wondering since my boyfriend talks about cars and I know abosolutley nothing about cars what can I talk about with him on that subject so I won't feel dumb?

Well you can try to change the subject and talk about other things and not always about what he wants to talk about which is cars.

have fun and good luck =]

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14/f. My BEST guy friend is Taylor. We tell each other everything and he is the only guy that I can call up and have a real converstation with. A few days ago he told me that he likes my best friend, Rachael. Ever since then, I've been VERY protective of him. If he's talking to Rachael, for example, I'll pull him away just so that I can talk to him. Or if he's not talking to me for just a second I feel rejected. I know that I don't like him because thats not what I'm feeling. We're just friends but why do I feel like I "NEED" to talk to him all the time?

Maybe you have feelings for him and you just arent aware of them or maybe Your scared that if he goes out with Rachael then you wont get as much attention from him as usual. Trust me from experience no matter what if hes your best guy friend even though he has a girlfriend he will be there for you to talk to him and he would be able to help you with your problems.

Good luck and have fun =]

&♥

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ok im 13/f i weigh about 125 and i want to weigh about 110 so i want to loose weight an easy way is there an easy way to loose weight other then dieting and really hard workouts but if not can u send me some information from the internet because i cant find any thanks

Simply, eat healthy! In addition forget about a lot of the little snacks during meals and cut down on portions. Most of all, on nice days go outside run, walk, jog, biking, and try doing these things with a friend. It makes it a lot easier and funner. Try joining a sport after school or something. Or even outside of school.

Good luck and have fun=]

&♥;

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okay i know this question has been asked a million times and i get the same answer: crunches, but it doesnt work so here:

i want to lose my lower stomach fat and i have tried exercises like crunches, situps and walking. what are some really good exercises or something i could do to get that lower stomach to be flat? it gets annoying because i cant wear shirts that show a little belly and such, so does anyone know anything/exercises i could do that you know will DEFINETLY work? please help because i have been trying to get my stomach to be flat but it never happens and i have waited for like months. and please dont say crunches or running, ive tried those and dont work well.. thanks ill rate high

Just eat healthy and cut down on the junk foods and portions of foods at meals. Also, try cutting down on the in between snacks during the day. Go for walks and have fun. Be outside and be active

Good luck and have fun =]

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Well me and certain boy went out like last summer and we have always had an on and off thing for the past year. Me n him are talking again but I wanna tell him I don't wanna be there just as a girl he can come back to everytime. How can I tell him this politely but still be his friend?

Firstly, start to hang out with him more and just act like nothings wrong. After that when you feel more comfortable around him start giving him little hints and then sooner or later come around and tell him.

Good luck hun
♥elisa

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me n a boy had been talking and started liking each other then we made out at a bep cocnert and he won't answer my im or text or calls of anything.. what should I do and what did i do to push him away?

I dont think you pushed him but try not talking to him for a while (a week)and then see what happens.

Good luck and have fun =]

♥elisa

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do you think its weird. if you stay with your first boyfriend forever
b.c i think thats gonna happen to me
i dont mind. but is it likey to happen

It's not weird because as long as the both of you are happy with eachother. Let it happen.

good luck and have fun =]

♥elisa

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So, My mother always seems to tell me im fat nad nee ot exerisize and loose weight and today she said i have love handels, i tell her it bothers me saying these thigns but she tells me to be quit and if i tell her to get away and that im upset with her she grounds me for a week from the phone [[i talk to my bf on it atleast once a day]] and i dont think its fair, anyways, i want to please my mother so can you all give me some exersizes to get rid of love handels nad ton up my stomich, i honestly think im fine.. check out my myspace www.myspace.com/meg_92 but my mother thinks other wise.. please help me before i go through a eating diorder.. i go through that or i will eat nothing but a saled or two a day for a few weeks..
help!!!

Sincerly,
Hurt.

I'm a 14/f whos 5'4 and weighs 136.

I saw the pictures and honestly, i dont think your fat (and thats the truth). It really doesnt matter what people say even your mom or dad becuase its how you fell about yourself that matters. If you want to loose weight, then you should exercise and eat healthy. Otherwise dont worry about it.

Have fun and good luck=]

♥elisa

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ok well i'm in 8th grade and for the end of the year trip we're going to a waterpark and like i wanna wear a bikini but i'll be soo self conscious in it. i'm like 5'5" and about 102 pounds or around there but i really wanna gain a few more pounds because my ribs like stick out and it looks weird. i'm not like super skinny and i mean, i eat, like A LOT. lol but i like don't gain weight. soo my question is, what can i do to gain maybe like 3-5 pounds by june? but healthy. thanksss.

If you say you eat A LOT and you wanna GAIN weight theres not much to do. You can try to eat more but healthy and not only junk foods.

Have fun and good luck =]

♥elisa

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I hate serious relationships/having a boyfriend. I'm just not a big fan of the whole 'love' thing at this point in my life. I like flirting & I like having fun. There's this one guy who's great and I wouldn't mind having fun with him (in a clean way). He wants a relationship with me. How do I go about telling him that I really do like him but for now, I don't want him to expect me to change soon & want him to be my boyfriend.

The best thing to do would be to wait a little while and see if yours or his feelings change. If you wind up liking him thats great if you dont thats ok too because theres always someone else! and no matter what you guys always have a chnace of being friends =]

good luck hun

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How do I know if I really really like this guy.
I REALLY NEED TO KNOW IT'S AN EMERGENCY.

I don't really know him though, but I feel like my heart sinks eveytime I see him. I feel stupid

(I rate)

This happens to me a lot so just get to know him and talk to him about things and then see how it works out after that.

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