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WHY DO I "NEED" TO TALK TO HIM???
14/f. My BEST guy friend is Taylor. We tell each other everything and he is the only guy that I can call up and have a real converstation with. A few days ago he told me that he likes my best friend, Rachael. Ever since then, I've been VERY protective of him. If he's talking to Rachael, for example, I'll pull him away just so that I can talk to him. Or if he's not talking to me for just a second I feel rejected. I know that I don't like him because thats not what I'm feeling. We're just friends but why do I feel like I "NEED" to talk to him all the time?
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well. you may sorta be jelous of your friend Rachael. and if your best guy friend goes out with her then you'll be left out. thats probably what your thinking. but if you dont like him then you should give your friend a chance to get to know him
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since he is your best friend, you probably just dont want rachael to hurt him.. or for him to hurt rachael. just try to let it go and talk to him about what is going on with the two of them. if he is your best friend, he will talk to you about it with out a doubt.
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It's natural to feel protective of your best friend. But try to give him some space. He seems like a great guy, and will probably have many girlfriends in his life. This is something you're going to have to accept. You can tell that he still wants to be friends with you, and nothing will change between the two of you. He may have to leave you occasionally to be with her, but don't get offended. He doesn't mean it, and wouldn't want to hurt you. If you want, talk to him about your feelings and be sure that he still wants to be friends with you. I hope everything works out!
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Maybe you have feelings for him and you just arent aware of them or maybe Your scared that if he goes out with Rachael then you wont get as much attention from him as usual. Trust me from experience no matter what if hes your best guy friend even though he has a girlfriend he will be there for you to talk to him and he would be able to help you with your problems.
Good luck and have fun =]
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