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kissing
so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a couple months and i love kissing him. and i always want to. we havent done it that much though. and its because i am a nervous wreck every time. he was my first kiss and weve never really made out or anything and he knows that im nervous and that he was my first and he knows i think i have no idea what im doing and he trys to make me feel better about it but i still cant help it. i want to make out with him but i dont know how to or how to get over the nervous thing. please dont say just go for it cuz i wish i could lol. any help you can give would be GREAT!!
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Hi there, it basically will come the time were you 2 will be in a quiet warm cozzy spot and you will both stair each other in the eyes and lean forward. Then you've got to decide wether or not your going to do it or your going to move your head to the side. Being nervouse is only natural at first, but if you keep feeling nervouse then you will never get to the next level. Why? Because your losing confidence. You need to be a little more confident in what you do. Confidence is the positive side to nervouse. Just make out with him when you really feel as though your going to burst if you don't. Trust me that feeling usually comes when your in love with someone. Here is the facts:
NERVOUSE
negative, hide away, not confident
CONFIDENT
positive, feel ready, just go with it, follow your heart
Sometimes when we are nervouse our body is trying to tell us that we are'nt as ready to do whatever than we actually want to. Sometimes we need to listen to our feelings. When you feel confident do it. At least you know you were ready. Daniel.
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before i ever made out with a guy before i also was a little nervous and i was scared that whoever i did make out with first was gonna be like "damn wtf is wrong with this girl"...but its actually not liekthat at all...i just went for it one night and it worked out great, he even told me i was a good kisser, and thats with no practice what so ever. i didnt think about it at all and i honestly didnt realize i was making out with the kid til we stopped cause he had really bad breath. hah..i have a really bad story. but i know this isnt the answer you want, but the best way to make out with your guy is to just go with the flow and let him lead the way pretty much.
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Okay. I had the same problem. I was really nervous to make out with my boyfriend of like 2 weeks. We were at a party, and all night I avoided it, until the end. We were standing outside, it was dark. He leaned in, and next thing I know, it happened. You really do just have to go for it. It comes naturally, TRUST ME. Don't think too much about it, or your thoughts will overrule your instinct. Just go with it. I know you said not to say that, but its true. Its all natural. He will just love to make out with you, he won't mind if youre a first timer. Plus after 10 seconds of doing it, you'll know what your doing, its not tough. So seriously, just stop thinking about it and do it!!
Good luck, and most importantly HAVE FUN =)
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ok. you probably arent ready yet. if you want this than you can do it. but never force yourself. i would say just relax and wait because your time willl come.
PS:i had my first kiss 6/14/2006:). it was small though. at least you know that your guy is good enough to wait and not rush you like mine!:):):)
~~DOM
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you know what i had this problem too when it came down too it ijust let go and didnt hold back take all your feeling you have for him and put it into you guys kissin and i bet it will be a kiss he WONT EVER FORGET. trust me
Jazzy**
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lmao i once was in this situation well this may sound stupid but there's this movie called bluemoon or something like that its a country movie but anyways they practice making out with their hands idk if that works but some of my friedns do that to funny huh lol but i geuss it works or you could always just let him lead do what he does
i hope i helped =) Brianna
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