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ok so there is this really really nice guy who goes to my church he is a good friend and stuff and i kind of like a little is that a bad thing or if i tell him do you think our relationship will change i am not sure!

dont worry these kinds of situations happen all the time!its allright to take risks esspcially if he likes you the same way then youll be happy you did it.well what you need to do is tell him you have a friend who likes her best friend and she doesnt know if she should tell him how she feels because shes afraid it would mess up there friendship.pay close attention to how he answers and if he gets the "hint" thats good youll be able to see what he thinks about it.if he doesnt get the "hint" then tell him how you feel.dont be afraid!youll never know if you dont ask! hope i helped!!!! o yeah this is dirtyom best friend crazysista.im having trouble with my page so she let me answer a question on her page!

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I have these two friends and they both lie at times. To me at times...and well one day they were asking weight. And I said I'm 160 and she said 120. now she's pretty fat and she can't in no way be 120. I was really stunned at her effort to lie. I don't want to confront her but she makes me feel like i can't trust her again.

What do I do? help me please cause it relly hurts me she lied.

ssssssooooooooooooooooooo ssoooooooooorrryy to tell you this but you HAVE to confront her. just have a group "meeting". tell her how you feel. if it's you true friend she'll apologize.
PS: make sure you talk to her about bigger issues than just the wieght scam.

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so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a couple months and i love kissing him. and i always want to. we havent done it that much though. and its because i am a nervous wreck every time. he was my first kiss and weve never really made out or anything and he knows that im nervous and that he was my first and he knows i think i have no idea what im doing and he trys to make me feel better about it but i still cant help it. i want to make out with him but i dont know how to or how to get over the nervous thing. please dont say just go for it cuz i wish i could lol. any help you can give would be GREAT!!

ok. you probably arent ready yet. if you want this than you can do it. but never force yourself. i would say just relax and wait because your time willl come.

PS:i had my first kiss 6/14/2006:). it was small though. at least you know that your guy is good enough to wait and not rush you like mine!:):):)
~~DOM

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There is this annoying asian girl that I met today because of the new seating chart in Bio. when first she saw me she just glared at me and started picking on me about my race. (cause a lot of people think that I'm mixed or half white/half asian even though I'm just chinese) Then after school she almost hit me with her car and she took a u-turn just to confront me. I know that it wasn't my fault cause while I was crossing the street she just took a sudden turn without looking. I talked to some people and they said that she is jealous of me and is trying to compete with me since she has the asian eyes and I don't have them. What should I do besides ignore her?

I think you should have nonviolent confrontation. just have a talk with her and see why she doesn't like you. if she ignores you than whatever. but one thing is for sure do not get in a fight. next time she insults just show her a happy face. just keep smiling. she should stop. if she gets mad because your happy and trys to fight you then just dodge her swings until you can walk away but NEVER FIGHT BACK. because youll get in trouble and thats what she wants.
just do this and talk to a teacher. i'm sur it will solve your problem.

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ok so here is a conversation i had with this guy that i like and i can't figure what exactly he meant in his last text message so i'm gonna type the whole conversation and i want you to tell me wat you think he means. I'll rate 5's to everyone that gives me an opinion. O and my name is *Debbie* and his is *Nathan* And this conversation was at 11:30 last night.

Nathan---how about we give what we both want a chance and see how good we really are together. hit me back adn let me know what you think you might like.

Debbie---in shock didn't reply for a minute

Nathan---are you going to text back anytime soon i would really like to know what you think before i go to sleep, i guess i could just call you.

Debbie---Well depends on what you really want.

Nathan---You know what i really want what is it you want.

Debbie---No i don't think i know what you want.

Nathan---I want you and you do know that what do you want, I wouldn't mind there being an US but that would be up to you. but what do YOU want.????

Debbie---(i sent this one to the wrong place)I want there to be an us to.

Nathan---are you there can i get a response please, just leaving me hangin ain't cool you know. I will call you in the morning but i want you to text me.

Debbie---I sent it to your phone instead of your screenname but i want to be with you.

ok this is where i get confused.

Nathan---i never got it but *that's good* i'll call you later ok.

Are we dating? What does *that's good* mean?

Thanks signed
really confused

OK I'M CONFUSED TOO. now i think you should call him. or text him. just ask what he means and are we going together. just say i like you and want to go with you so are we?
just try it.

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My Dad has a great job oppurtunity that he just accepted & that means I have to move about 14 hours away. Don't get me wrong, I'm really happy & kind of excited to get a chance to start over but I'm kind of scared. I've never moved before... I just started at a new high school this year as a freshman but I had a lot of people I knew around me. I don't know what to do! I've worn uniforms to school my whole life & next year I'll be at public school...I have no idea how I would dress! Can someone relate or help me out? I'm 15, female, soon to be sophomore. I'm moving to the Princeton, NJ area. Thanks!

i think you should dress like you normally do. if people don't like because your different then forget them. just go shopping there and give your best first impression at school. oh! and maybe ask some people and see what style you like. glad to be of service

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