Question Posted Wednesday February 15 2006, 7:07 pm
There is this annoying asian girl that I met today because of the new seating chart in Bio. when first she saw me she just glared at me and started picking on me about my race. (cause a lot of people think that I'm mixed or half white/half asian even though I'm just chinese) Then after school she almost hit me with her car and she took a u-turn just to confront me. I know that it wasn't my fault cause while I was crossing the street she just took a sudden turn without looking. I talked to some people and they said that she is jealous of me and is trying to compete with me since she has the asian eyes and I don't have them. What should I do besides ignore her?
DirtyOM answered Thursday June 15 2006, 4:01 pm: I think you should have nonviolent confrontation. just have a talk with her and see why she doesn't like you. if she ignores you than whatever. but one thing is for sure do not get in a fight. next time she insults just show her a happy face. just keep smiling. she should stop. if she gets mad because your happy and trys to fight you then just dodge her swings until you can walk away but NEVER FIGHT BACK. because youll get in trouble and thats what she wants.
just do this and talk to a teacher. i'm sur it will solve your problem.<-- DOM [ DirtyOM's advice column | Ask DirtyOM A Question ]
Nallie answered Wednesday February 15 2006, 11:24 pm: She may be jelous of you, but don't let it get you down, that should be a compliment! Try being nice to her, and if it doesn't change her attitude at least you will be the better person.
Of course if the threats continue, like the stunt with the car, you have to report this to the authorities. Either the police or school administration...a lot of school violence happens because of jelously! [ Nallie's advice column | Ask Nallie A Question ]
Erikanne answered Wednesday February 15 2006, 9:27 pm: She sounds like a bitch!Yeah she is most likely jelous, & if ignoring her doesn't work confront the girls. It's usually the best way to clear things out of thet way.
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