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what does his behavior mean?
I went out to have lunch with a male friend of mine. During our meal he asked me where I was going to meet Mr. Right, and that Prince Charming wasn't going to knock on my door. He also said that if I was still single in 5 years that I wouldnt be happy. The whole time he was looking at me romantically. At the end of our meal I applied a fresh coat of lipgloss and he couldn't take his eyes of me, like he was getting turned on. When we left the restaurant it was raining and he held his umbrella over my head.
Do you think that all the questions he was asking me was him hinting around that he was interested in me? I think he was thinking long term, why else would he be talkig about 5 years from now?
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He is so hiting on you. He is trying to hid it up by all of the question. It kindof sound like he might be head over heals. Ok maybe not that drastic but pretty close.
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I would say that he was almost certainly into you-guys vary in their approach to asking a girl out;some do it directly, some indirectly. The latter method usually sugggests a lack of self-confidence on his part. The question for you is, though, how interested are you in him? Your question doesn't say, though I suppose the fact that you are even asking shows that you are at least curious. Given that you like him, leave him to make another move-ask you to lunch again, or over to his house. If he doesn't do this within about a week, then there's no harm in contacting him.
As for the long term thing, it sounds as though he's definitely looking ahead. I have to say, though, that I personally would have been annoyed by his telling you that if you were single in five years, you wouldn't be happy. Who is he to say that? That is often a line used by men who aren't very successful with or interesting to women, so beware. Prince Charming doesn't have to knock on your door, you can go and find him, whether in the form of this man or not.
Good luck.
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it's quite possible guys don't usually come out and say what they are thinking in a romantic sense. you may just need to ask him to drag it out of him. it couldn't hurt. just be clear on how you feel about the situation.
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hey girly! from everythign he said he is hinting you that he likes. and tryign to tell you sicne he has known you and gottne to eb friend that eh wants to yourboyfriend and be there not only as a friend but as a lover.
*~Stephanie~*
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to me it sounds like he likes you and wants you to see that he is willing to commit to you.
i say just try it. he seems like a great guy. it never hurts to fall in love with a guy that wont let you fall.
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To be honest, I don't think he could have been much more obvious about his feelings. He sounds very much as if he's seriously interested in you.
So I guess it's time for you to decide how you feel about him.
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