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Oh, Boys. 5 of them actually.
lately ive been having so much trouble with guys. i feel so retarded. im torn between way too many of them =/ [13/f grade 7, in CT]
guy 1: Moved away during the summer, to california. i really love him [i know it]. and i never said goodbye. now i can't get over that. We were obsessed over eachother, and we flirted in the most abvious ways, and then he found my friends xanga; where she had made a comment about me hating him (ii told her things like that to hide the fact i liked him). and he completely stopped talking to me. but time went on, and we still flirted in the most obvious ways.
guy 2: Had a huge crush on me at the end of 6th grade and during the summer. and i sort of liked him. he came bak to school and looked, well, a lot better. he asked out two girls since school started, but still seems to stare at me. Now i feel stupid, because a sure thing fell through.
guy 3: guy 3 is a 6th grader. and i feel so lame liking him. hes really cute and makes me want to dieeee. i see him constantly around the halls and talk to him. but im really ont sure if he likes someone in his grade.
guy 4: this guy, is the etreme of popular. ive always helsd back from liking guys like him. but its hard not to. hes mega cute, when im alone and talk to him hes really nice, but when i look at him with his crowd, i get jealous and angry and want to punch myself for liking him. He's been over to my house a few times because i have a twin brother hes friends with. we've played video games and basketball and things (im really good at basketball), and ive aways kind of wore really short shorts. But, he's dated the etreme popular girl. and i want to punch her for having him like her.
guy 5: ive known him since kindergarten, been over to my house thousands of time. ive seen him in his boxers [yeah, i know], and i've hated him throughout the years. but come this year, i find him cute, and i like him. but because we've been, like, enemies fore a while, im hesitant about the way he feels.
im kind of torn.
So here comes the question portion.
1 = how am i supposed to choose?
2 = who would you choose?
3 = if i really like any of them, wouldn't i be able to choose?
4 = how can i get guys i like to like me back?
i know that this was long, but im in seriouse need of help. love confuses me, and i need to be unconfused for once.
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YOur 13 and going through 5 guys!
heck, just write out thier qualities on a list and eliminate them one by one.
(example: he is not too smart, move him)or(he is too much of a stud, eliminate him)
2 i am not gay so i wont chose one
3 ummmmmmmmm, no?
4 you don't! make a move and if it doesn't work, chose contestant # 2! you got 5 right, one must like you.
Cj
13f in 7th with 5 guys?!?
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honestly no one can choose who you like. you have to think about this one. but honestly if i were you, you seem to really like the 6th grader. and obviously the popular guy is out of the question and the guy who moved away is so not okay. Its so not bad to like someone younger than you. And to get a guy to like you back all you have to do it 1) tell him so he is aware that you like him 2) act like yourself and dont hold back
hope i helped good luck and remeber its up to u! <3
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