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Hey guys! I'm Heather, I'm fifteen years old and a sophomore in high school. I love hanging out with my friends, shopping, no matter where I am or what I'm doing...I'd rather be tanning. I enjoy listening to music, if there's anything else you'd like to know IM me :)


Website: xanga
E-mail: heatherbda1@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Columbia, South Carolina
Occupation: student
Age: 15
AIM: urheartcore
Yahoo: heatherbda1
Member Since: June 9, 2005
Answers: 18
Last Update: August 4, 2005
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how do you tell when you are "in love?" (link)
I don't think you can answer that question fairly. If you're in love ... you'll know it.


do many girls take it up the ass? (link)
I'm not quite sure if there's really an ass to vagina ratio.

I think it just all has to do with preference.


Hi, I'm trying to get rid of my my unsociable, indifferent, freshman reputation, and hopefully make some close friends this upcoming year. I would like to know some ways I might be able to change people's perception of me. I guess I come off as withdrawn and slightly angry, so this may come off as a difficult question for those of you "popular people", who are able to make friends easily. My main purpose is to make friends in order actually look forward to going to school in the morning... For your information, I am 15 and male. (link)
Just say hey to people who you wouldn't even consider your close friends. Ask how their day went and how they are doing.


do many girls deepthroat?? (link)
I don't really know ... I'm sure some do, but the majority probably not ... just because of the gag reflexes in the back of your throat.


What type of clothes do you like best in a guy? (polo, AnF, hollister, ecko, tommy..etc) (link)
I don't really like "labels" i think they're stupid.
as long as you're wearing nice, clean looking clothes .. you're good.

but I will say I lean towards the more preppy guys.


so heather. i've been having mad hot drunkin unprotected sex a lot lately. recently i did it with a girl that told me she was a virgin. i believed her but soon found out [the next morning] that she had mad crabs. i got the crabs out but i didn't quite learn my lesson. i was back at it the next night and she too told me she was a virgin. the next morning i scrubbed for hours, hoping that i wouldn't catch anything from her but the next day i saw little red bumps all around my area. i'm scared that my friends will stop talking to me, thinking that my herpes will jump through the air and they will catch it. heather.. what should i do? (link)
Well Parker ... uhh i mean ... yeah.

Just .. go to the doctor! They can perscribe all kinds of medicine where your herpes outbreaks won't be noticable and you won't even have to tell your friends! good luck!


suit up!
no glove. no love.


heather my love,
so anyways.. i have experienced with girls and i have realized that i do very much enjoy being with girls than guys. i get a rush.. it feels dangering and i just feel so much comfortable with girls then guys.. i really want to tell my friends and family that i am bi. to get it out in the open. bu them to understand i have to be either gay or straight.. bc one day ill be comin home with a guy.. the next with a girl... how do u think i should approach them.. or should i even? (link)
Well I think you should definitely tell them, but when you're comfortable. Don't feel rushed to let people know, do it at your own pace.

I'm pretty sure your friends and family understand that bisexual means you like both girls AND guys. Your family is going to love you not matter what ... and it's also going to be a good way to figure out who your REAL friends are.

good luck!!

♥,
heather


Thanks for the advice. But it kind of ruined me.

Last night I went into my room to continue my act of doing the crybaby, while my stereo was booming the tunes of LFO.

...and i broke my pelvis (link)
OMG!!!

were you with the two friends?
no!!!

that is what was essential here, jabuty!

I like girls that wear abercrombie and fitch?

not to quote LFO or anything.


hey heather. thanks for the advice, it helped a lot, ill tell you later about what happend though, but we got down and dirtay! but one more thing... give me advice on how i can hook up with you sometime. thanks a lot, you've been a big help!

-Nick (i make love to my dogs) (link)
well nick, to hook up with me
it requires a few things.

-herbal essences conditioner (fruit fusions)
-macaroni and cheese
-the notebook (movie, ft. ryan gosling)
-and...anything else of your preference.

thanks! hope i helped!!

♥,
heather


Heather... to get straight to the point... ive been having dreams about my dogs, and doing rather explicit sexual things to them. and now im starting to have feelings for one of my dogs. how do i approach him about it? hes been really weird lately and hasnt talked to me since ive told him about these dreams. should i just move on to another animal rather than a dog? please help!

-Nick (link)
Well nick, I think you should be upfront with your dog...tell him how you really feel, i mean cmon you HAVE been fooling around with them, right? So after-all, they have to have some feelings for you, atleast just a little bit. But yes, if they show no other signs of being a "man's best friend", if you will, or being completely passionate animals...then yes, move on to a different animal. Warthogs, if you will.

Hope I helped!!

♥,
Heather


Ok, I'll have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 weeks, tomorrow. I've heard rumors that if his g/f wont have sex with him that he dumps them after a month. And I'm 13 and I don't want to have sex. He is having a party next weekend and invited me to it. Its a pool/birthday party at his house. If my mom lets me go, I'm going. But if that rumors true...he well might wanna ya know. What should I do? (link)
Just because you hear rumors about someone doesn't mean they're true.

If your mom lets you go to the party then you should go, see how things turn out. If you feel like you're being pressured into doing something you don't want to do...then don't do it! and make sure he knows that.

If the rumor IS true...PSH! find a new boyfriend!

hope i helped!

♥,
heather


Heather,
I have an obsession with doing the cry baby on on the floor at 1 am, and getting in hot tubs that aren't even hot. I'm afraid if I let this behavior continue, I could be corrupted when I'm older. You are wise, oh wise one. Please help me

Love,
Jabuty (link)
Well Jabuty -- to answer your question... my advice to you is continue with the crybaby...even if it is at 1 am...and about the hottubs...make sure theyre not any colder than 85ยบ, that you're doing it with your friends and also that there's a freezing cold pool right beside it that you can jump into.

About being corrupted when you're older.
Hmm, that's tough. I say...continue having your fun because I know atleast 2 other girls that will be corrupted with you.

hope I helped!

♥,
heather


what do you think is an appropriate age to have sex .. if you really love the person. and no, its not that high school crap with the 'i luv yew soooo much!!!' .. its for real .. and you know it is.

i mean, should you wait until marriage or what? (link)
I don't think there is an appropriate age to have sex...whenever you're ready i suppose. whether or not you wait until you're married is between you two.

also, how am i supposed to know that it's foreal?

♥,
heather


Okay I sweat really bad under my arms.ALL the time. And I've tried every deoderant there is! Nothing helps.And it doesn't smell it's just sweat. Help? (link)
Okay! I know someone that has the same problem as you do. Don't worry!

Try searching the internet for antiperspirants, not necessarily deoderants. They have all different options such as sprays, creams, sticks, gels, etc. If then after trying a few out and still aren't happy try going to your doctor and getting check out, he can perscribe you Drysol.

to learn more about Drysol, go here
http://www.drugstore.com/qxa1067_333181_sespider-what_is_drysol.htm


good luck!

♥,
heather


Heather, how are you so damn beautiful?? (link)
omgosh.

who are yall!?

♥,
heather


hey you beautiful foxy sexy hunny, can we screw sometime?? (link)
oh man. you make me sick.


♥,
heather


what is a girl's favorite position when it comes to fucking? because i heard it was doggy style, but i just can't see how getting something shoved up you're ass could be comfortable and pleasurable?! ... thank God i'm a guy (link)
well i guess a girl's "favorite position" would all depend on the girl herself. and doggy style doesn't necessarily have to be anal?


♥,
heather


you are beautiful (link)
haha aww thank you!

♥,
heather




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