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Not a Kid
Whenever my parents go out to "buy" me clothes, that's when the problem starts. They always buy me things like plaid skinny leg pants or big, oversized T-shirts, and that just isn't my style- I prefer jeans and a nice, form-fitting tee. Is there a way to tell then that I don't wear things that I used to wear as a little girl without hurting their feelings?
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The next time your parents go out to buy you clothes, go with them! Go to the stores that you want to go to (but try not to be too pushy!) That way, they'll get the idea of what you want and your style of clothes for the next time! :0)
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just say well actually i kinda would like to try this on mom or dad because its cool and all my freinds are weazring it. try something like that.
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Tell them how you feel. Tell them your growing up and u want to start choosing your clothes. tell them you dont want to hurt there feelings but , every parent has to go through that point where there child grows up.
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tell them that your growing up and you want to go next time they go out to go buy clothes! tell them that you want to start your own style and you still apprechate their opinion but you want to be yourself! :)
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Hey maybe go with them and show them the type of clothes that you like.then they may pick it up and see that you want them type of clothes and not the ones they are buying for you.
Love kim
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maybe you should just buy your own clothes
like go out shopping with your friends, or just go with them shopping
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Yes there definitly is. All you need to say is how much you appreciate them spending there time buying you colthes all the time but maybe it would be fun if you went with them. Suggest going with the to shop. Not only will you get to pick out the clothes yourslef, but you can spend "quality time" with them. You could also just tell them how you feel, the only reason why they are probably still buying you this stuff is because you haven't spoken up about it and they think you like it.
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Get your mom and dad to sit down and just tell them politely that you really would like to go out and chose yur own clothes considreing you are getting older. Say you dotn always like all the clothes they buy so it will be a waste of money, and if at least you buy them it wont bbecause you will wear them. Hope fully they will undesrtand your no t a little kid any more and you want your own style in clothing. You and your mom maybe could go on a shopping spree and get some new clothes for your warddrobe and if your mom wnats to buy you something next time she will know what type of things you like. Or when you go shopping point out the clothes you like then they can come and get them another time. Hope they understand. Good Luck!!!
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Why not suggest to go shopping with them next time and make it a family outting, that way, you can pick out what you want, and maybe your parents will start to see that you are changing taste in clothing.
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ok...you should just tell your parents that your are growing up, and you want to be able to express your own style by picking out your clothes on your own...or u could tell them what kind of clothes you want to wear, and ask them to pick out clothes that fit that description...its not going to hurt their feelings, if your growing up
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