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I'd tell you my name, but I want to keep this anonymous...so anyway, I have this problem with someone called, let's just say "Robert". Since last year, we had been going out for ten months, up until the 11th of May, when he quickly dumped me. He said that he wasn't happy with me, mainly because I have this little issue with stretching the truth....don't know why, I just do. I tried to tell him that I don't do that to him at all, and he wouldn't listen to me. He says that he still loves me and always will, but as of right now, he wants to be friends. It's been almost two weeks now and I understand where he's coming from, and I have tried to respect him and his decision, but I want to date him again. What should I do? I want him back.
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well definatly just tell him you love him and you will never lie to him again and you want to get back together. if not then go find someone else ASAP! the longer you wait the more depressed your gonna be. pluse it may just take seeing you with another guy to make him relize how bad he needs you.
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If you feel that you really do want to be with him, then you have to be honest with him and always tell him what you're thinking and how you feel about him. I mean no one wants to be with a liar, not that you are. Just be yourself around him and try to talk to him, so him that you two can never be "just friends."
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You will probably have to change the truth stretching to get him back. With everyone not just him. It will be tough but you can do it with a little effort. Just start thinking about it before you say anything.
It doesn't look real good for your relationship. I don't think I would give up yet though. Work on telling it like it is instead of stretching the truth...Then approach him again. :)
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wow... the guy i just broke up with.. was like " i still like you and always will" also. you know, if he does like you, but wants to date other people, it may be because you two were togetrher for so long he couldnt handle it...but try out a few guys for size.. on like causual dates or something. see what you think
p.s... sorry to hear your tenth motnh relationship ended
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well, if you do want him back don't make it obvious...play hard to get. You should look around for new guys too! It is always fun to be single, ause you do need to know if he is the one so maybe it is good that yall will date other people. and if yall were meant to be, it will happen later on when it is supposed to happen. Right now, just let him have his space and see if things work out. BUT PLAY HARD TO GET IF HE COMES BACK....you never want to look like you have been waiting for him this whole time
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Well maybe show him that youll stop stretching the truth.. but if that dont work id try to move on even though im sure that would be difficult.. much luv ♥
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