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Not feeling any pleasure.
Hi, I recently started having sex with my boyfriend. After talking about it for a couple months we decided we were ready. The problem is, it doesn’t feel good. I’m relaxed and everything so I’m confused. Should I tell my boyfriend? I’m scared to because he might feel bad and blame him self. Is there something wrong with me?
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ya i think the best possible solution here is foreplay that really helps and hey if you want to add extra pleasure go to the store and grab a bottle of ky warming lotion it makes everything feel really good i promise!!!
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Get him or yourself to rub on your clit.. and try different positions and also maybe try foreplay..
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No there is nothing wrong with you but I think you aren't doing enough foreplay to begin with before you actually start having sex. Spend time touching eachother etc and finding out what turns eachother on and slowly you will become even more realxed and start to find the sex much more pleasurable. Hope this helps a little
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no it not feeling good is just a sign from your body telling you your not ready dont worry about it
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There is nothing wrong with you. It may hurt the first time you have sex but you will get use to it. You just have to find out what you like and ask your boyfriend to accomidate you. I think that you should also tell your boyfriend when it hurts and tell him to ease up or do somthing different. He might do somthing different that will help you a lot.
i hope i helped
-Anton
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You may be trying to hard for the pleasure, or you may be doing it wrong, try out different positions, experiment. Email me if you want more advice. [email in my column]
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well it probably is his fault. its not jsut relaxation you have to be wet enough down there. forplay is best for that. is it just like nothing or is it actualy painful? eiether way it probably is his fault, not yours
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