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uh, he's a bit of a druggie
ok, i am a 17 yr old female seniro in high school and i am dating this 18 yr old guy who is also a senior in high school and i know he smokes pot, and he thinks i am ok with it. one day at his house he kept asking me if i was sure it didnt bother me, cuz he was gonna go smoke some. he ask me so many times it was almost like he wanted me to say "yeah, it bugs me" but i kept saying no it doesnt bug me, and he was so concerned i would get mad at him for smoking it. but it didnt bother me until he went up to his room to smoke it so he make his house smell like it. thats when i actually got upset about it, but i didnt wanna tell him that. then that night we went out with my best friend and her fiance. and i tried to hold his hand and things as much as i could so he wouldnt think i was mad at him (cuz we are always that type of super physical together unless one is upset at the other)
so now i dont know what to tell him cuz it kinda does bug me, even though i have known for like 3 yrs that he did. but it didnt hit me untill then. so know i dont know what to say, cuz my mom wants him to get a drug test, and i know he wont pass it, i was thinking of asking him to quit for me, since i love him so much, and for himself. but i dont wanna sound selfish and thigns like that. so i dont know what to do. SOME ONE HELP ME PLZ!!!!!!!!!!
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You should say something... like the next time he asks you say something like " I dont want to sound selfish but if you ever get a bad batch you could die and i could loose you. I was reading an article about a young man who took drugs and he died and left his family behind. If you really love me you'll stop! and please just take the drug test after you stop for about a month so that my mom can approve of you too! Maybe he wants some one to tell him to stop because it really seems like he cares about what you think.
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hey just lyk tell him that you love him so much and lyk nothing could ever change that and then lyk tel lhim you dont lyk when he smokes cuz ur afriad for him...cuz basically smoking pot are similar to cigs....there just lyk cancer sticks...and tell him from the bottom of ur heart you really would lyk it if he tried to quit cuz u love him so much and you dont want him to get cancer in the future. but then be lyk if you dont wanna quit ill still love you just as much but i really would lyk to see you try to quit....hope i helped!!!
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