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Question Posted Tuesday November 22 2005, 1:04 pm

Hey, ok well ok im 14, and i recently lost my virginity a few days ago. I didnt use a condom, and im scared. Do you think i could be pregnant? But we probably only had sex for a minute. Please help im wooooried!!

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Kkittykat51314 answered Tuesday December 6 2005, 4:47 pm:
chances r, youre not. so i wouldnt worry about it...until u miss ur period... then, be scared. very scared.

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jbdreamer answered Monday November 28 2005, 10:24 am:
It so fustrating to hear that young kids are having sex, and have no idea of the consquences. This is why you should wait until you are mature enough to handle the responsibilities. Yes if you have sex without protection you could very likely be pregnant.

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QueenCece answered Monday November 28 2005, 12:35 am:
Well i say yeah u could be pregnant, but don't panic! Check if ur period doesn't come at it's time and if it doesn't then go to a clinic and check. If your on good terms with your mom on telling her something like this i would love for you t otell her. It hurts parents when you don't tell them things they need to know like this. But if you truly don't want to share it with her then go to a clinic with your best bud or yourself and check. The clinic won't tell your parents if you tell them not to and if they do tell them you can sue (very good know) because they surely have vilated your personal business! I would highly advie you get and abortion because that child can screw up your life in many ways. Even if it was 2 second sex you can still get pregnant if that sperm came out and don't dwell on if's. First of all you should have had a condom to protect you. Sex aint that important in the world to not to remember to protect yourself and think about your actions. Trust me i'm 14 as well!

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JuiiCy-x-3 answered Friday November 25 2005, 3:23 pm:
Umm,

well first of all.. you should have been wearing a condom all you have to do is go to a drug store and get one.. that's costs probably 2 bucks or less.

&& if you saw any or the guys sperm on you then that's a good chance that you got pregnant.

and if your period skips then that means your pregnant

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TRAGiCxWH0REx3 answered Wednesday November 23 2005, 10:43 pm:
Well if even ONE little sperm cell happened to make its way into you then there is a chance you are pregnant. I suggest you see a doctor or take a pregnancy test!

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shannonsgirl answered Wednesday November 23 2005, 8:37 pm:
well you should get a test and i would ask if he cummed inside you

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rosebud_01 answered Wednesday November 23 2005, 5:21 pm:
You are only fourteen years old I think that is a little young to be having sex. But since you have yes there is a chance that you can be pregnant. What you should do is wait until you are suppose to get your next period and see if you get it if not you should get one of those home pregnance test. In the meantime if you feel nauseated in the morning that is not a good sign cause that is one sign of being pregnant. I hope that I helped but if not you can drop by my column.

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megan03leigh answered Wednesday November 23 2005, 1:26 pm:
Uhh okay. You must remeber ALWAYS use protection ..exspecially a condom. not only bcuz you could get pregnant but to protect your self from any kinda of STD. The firstt time i did, i used a condom but i was still scared..It's kinda of a normal feeling. but just make sure you keep trackk of you period and you dont get it at least a week after you must go talk to either, your parent(s) or closest friendss. becausee you can't do it alone&its not just your life anymore it's yours, your b/f, and that baby's.

Megann&kaylaa

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babiigirl answered Tuesday November 22 2005, 11:00 pm:
Umm yes there is a possiblilty for you to be pregnant because he didnt use a condom and that one minute could of got u pregnant..? your only 14 what are u thinking?

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icey0990 answered Tuesday November 22 2005, 6:56 pm:
hey ...any unprotected sex means there is a chance of you being pregnant. if he didnt cum, the chances are less..but there is still a chance because there is precum..precum is premature ejaculation that the guy cannot control and doesnt know when premature ejaculation comes out. how recent was this? if it was very recent meaning the last 3 days, then you can go to planned parenthood and take a 72 hour pill, which kills a fertilized egg. i would take a pregnancy test..one of the first response ones also. i think you will be ok, just keep it in mind for next time..to be careful
-melissa

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qwerty1545 answered Tuesday November 22 2005, 6:55 pm:
i dont no fur shure but if i were you i would worry to i would go take a pregnanacy test and yes you probably dont want ur parents to findo ut so go with a friend or someone you can trust not to tell them a friends parent a grandparent anyone and make shure i doubt you are because you onlee did it fur a minute.. if hoewrever some cum did come out there may be a chance but i owuld get it checked out just in case..just to make shuree. hope it helps

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hyperhottiegirl answered Tuesday November 22 2005, 6:27 pm:
if the boy went into you mabye. If it was only a minute probaly not. Also its okay dont be afraid why dont you try getting a pregnancy test though just incase?

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xxxxxx answered Tuesday November 22 2005, 6:19 pm:
It really depends on your cycle. If you were during or a few days after your period you most likely wont get pregnant. But if you are ovulating, the chances are significantly higher. Also, sperm can live inside of you for up to 5 days, searching for an egg.

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cheddar answered Tuesday November 22 2005, 5:26 pm:
take a pregnancy test, even if it lasted a minute you could be pregnant if he ejaculated. and always alwayssss use condoms.

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vermillion26 answered Tuesday November 22 2005, 5:04 pm:
If the guy came then, yes, you could be pregnant. You should get a home pregnancy test, watch for your period (if it is late then that is a sign) and always ALWAYS use a condom when you're hving sex. I know it isn't the most spontaneous thing in the world, but please use protection, okay? I hope it all works out.

~Rainbow

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ThugGirl041790 answered Tuesday November 22 2005, 4:12 pm:
That minute could be all it takes to get pregnant.. Hmmm so yes theres a chance.. Use condoms for now on.. ♥ Dez

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orphans answered Tuesday November 22 2005, 3:45 pm:
you need to take a test, it doesnt matter how long you had sex for you can still get pregnant. you should always use protection, the last thing that you would want is to be pregnant. hope i helped x you can usually get condoms free from doctors or health centres xxx

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xXxpinky615xXx answered Tuesday November 22 2005, 3:36 pm:
If anyone tells you other wise, they are just dumb. But yes, of course you could be pregnant. Having sex without a condom is a sure fire way to get yourself pregnant or with an STD.


So yes, I think you COULD be pregnant. It doesn't matter if he finished in you or not how long he was in you, you had sex without a condom. When you have sex, no matter if you do it with or without a condom AND birth control there is still ALWAYS a chance at getting pregnant. Always.



This is going to be harsh, you should be worried. You're only 14 years old. You really shouldn't even be having sex. But I'm not going to judge because that's how old I was my first time. Of course I regret having sex that young.. but shit happens.


For now, you need to chill out. If you worry about it your period will come later than expected and you'll be even more freaked out.


Wait until you are due to get your period. If you don't get it within a week of your due date, take a pregnancy test.

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fabulous11 answered Tuesday November 22 2005, 3:31 pm:
well you never kno. If you only did it for a minute then you probably arent pregant but there always is a chance. Just get a pregnacy test.

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emotedardorxx4 answered Tuesday November 22 2005, 3:24 pm:
Alright, well I'm guessing he didn't cum inside of you if it was only a minute.. if he did though, because it is possible for guys to cum that fast, then its more of a possibility, if not then its not as much, although there is still a semi big risk. which is why protection should be used next time..

those are just facts not critisizing you because i too didn't use a condom the first time.. actually the first 3 times i hadn't because we never had one on hand, and i never got pregnant, i know it is a dumb thing to do but it happens.. i wouldn't worry about it too much.. and if its within 72 hours of it happening, you can go get a ECP (emergency contraceptive pill) aka morning after pill.. u can take it up to 72 hours after sexual intercourse, i got one the 3rd time i did it, and it stops any chances of getting pregannt, theres womens preganncy centers that give out free birth control to girls under 18, you should look into that, i know i am... i have one close to my house, maybe theres one by yours. call your hospital anonymously, they wont know who you are and just ask them, they'll be able to tell you


good luck hun.. i hope this helped.. try not to worry about it too much, its actually a lot harder to get pregnant then everyone believes.just think about all the women in marriages who get upset because it takes so long to get pregnant, its harder than you think it would be. good luck let me know how it goes

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Teza answered Tuesday November 22 2005, 3:19 pm:
If he cummed then yes you could be. If he did not cum or cum enough then no. If you are, you might get some pregnancy signs. To be 100% take a pregnancy test. ♥

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FullMoonLover08 answered Tuesday November 22 2005, 3:02 pm:
you could be. id get a pregnancy test. but relax and stop panicking. maybe youll be lucky. next time use protection

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Daria006 answered Tuesday November 22 2005, 2:45 pm:
hi, I kno this sounds awful but you might wanna look into it. you can get pregnant the first time. im not sure wat else to tell u. you should start by talking to someone you trust. Alot!

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ii__LUFF__Y0Ux answered Tuesday November 22 2005, 2:41 pm:
Dont panic... just take a pregnacy test but take more then one to make sure of the answer


<3Sarah

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naimee answered Tuesday November 22 2005, 1:39 pm:
Hi there (;

Well, it depends. Did yall go "all the way?" Did he cum inside of you, did he even cum at all? Well, if he didn't you basically have nothing to worry about. But, if he did then be cautious. Just wait until your period comes, and if it doesn't. Then you need to get a pregnancy test, & tell your parents. ): But if you really only had sex for a minute, then I doubt that you could be pregnant. But you never know.. Good luck.

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mooch789 answered Tuesday November 22 2005, 1:26 pm:
Well you probably didn't get pregnant because you had sex for like 1 minute but I would check it out because you didn't use a condem.

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