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HOW DO I PROVE...
How do I prove to my girlfriend that I like her more? Everytime I say I do, she says "Prove it." So i'm out to find a way tp prove it.
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yea i mean its not so much on buying things for her but maybe right her a love letter telling her all this sweet stuff and do something really special with her like take a romantic walk ro soemthing like this and when she says prove it shes not really asking you to spoil her shes asking you to kiss her or make out with her but not just in a normal way and a sweet little touch to it well hope that works
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Ok this is from another girls perspective... it depends how long you have been dating for, telling other people or telling your school will not work. mabye take her out to dinner and buy her roses- just the two jof you
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Bring her chocolates and flowers, if you want to melt her heart, bring her to a puppy store/pet store, puppies melt girl's hearts, trust me, I am a girl. Or surprise her by buying her, her favourite breed of puppy, that always melts a girl's heart. I can't guarantee it but, I don't think she'll be saying "prove it" to you anymore.
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I asked my boyfriend this, and he said:
well one thing, jsut think of sweet things, bringing her a flower every once in a while, making her a little trinkit to keep. when big celebrations come up, think of something each time that will blow her mind away. Like a certian anniversary or christmas or something, invite her over, cook her a beautiful candle lit dinner with rose petals, or set it up so your house seems different than every other time
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It seems as though she may have been hurt in the past as she sounds very insecure. If you're doing things like taking notice of her, giving her little presents from time to time and telling her how you feel, you can't be reasonably expected to do more. You can't buy love so don't try. If she doesn't respond with similar things, it seems there is something wrong with the relationship anyway and you need to talk to her about it.
If you are doing all of the above, try asking her what she means by 'prove it'. ie. Is she joking? Is she testing you? Is there something obvious she wants from you and you're not doing? Failing all that, you just need to tell her that if she feels the need for you to prove your feelings all the time, she has to learn to accept that this is not reasonable and to understand that your feelings have not changed even if you are not always telling her. Try to encourage her to have more self confidence, if she wasn't worth being with, you wouldn't be with her etc. Best of luck.
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Make out with her. Have you ever heard those famous lines? "Do you love me?" "Yeah." "Prove it."::major mackage:: Or you could write her a song, give her chocolates, write her a long, sweet note, or the one I like the best. The 100 Things I Love About You... and always end it with "I could go on forever but there's not enough paper in the world..." or something like that.
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actions speak louder than words, is what your girlfriend is saying, girls dont just want you to say you like them alot, they want romantic gestures, aka flowers, choclate, dancing with her (and not freak dancing i mean slow dancing, when nobody is around). my suggestion is you get the movie the notebook, and watch it, get some advice from it, and you could even watch it with your girlfriend, every girl LOVES that movie, and just about every girl cries, and you would make a nice shoulder to cry on, get my drift? good luck and remember the cheesier the better, the more romantic and overdone the BETTER!!!!
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Hi
In my opinion, the best way to "prove" that you like/love someone more is to SHOW it.
You can say "I love you" till the cows come home, but showing her your love will go farther (not that saying I love you is bad thing).
Now, I'm not talking about sex....I'm talking about holding hands, little kisses, hugs, flowers, appreciation. Do something for her that you know she will love.
I also think that she must have a minimal self-esteem or she wouldn't be thinking this. Almost like she has to keep being reassured that you still want to be in the relationship. By SHOWING her that you do, she will soon realize that you're not going anywhere. Take care.
Brenda
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It can be quite irritating when someone says "Prove It" and you think you are doing everything right. It usually represents insecurity on the persons part that does this. So perhaps helping her with her self esteem would be best. Say positive things to her that will build her up and make her feel good about her self.
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