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My ex called today to say “happy easter”. We dated for 4 months, he dumped me, and it’s been 3 months since the breakup. We go to school together, have lockers next to each other, and have the same friends, but somehow we’ve managed to ignore each other. We were at the same small party last night, and he smiled at me a few times across the room, but I thought it was just coincidence. Why did he call? He has a new gf, but I think they might have broken up. Any insights into what he might be thinking or trying to do would be much appreciated.
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I think he may just want to befriends i think you should watch out for any more hints that he likes you if you really want to no after you think he might if this happens, It depends on how he made you feel when you broke up did he break your heart? or was it like okay i guess thats how its gonna be like you didnt really care? if its number 1 then id say dont go back out for a dickwad like that who dumped you fro another girl, if its number two maybe the relationship wasnt very alive so he thought he'd try another girl who obviously didnt make him happy so he realized he had it good to begin with..then yea i guess id go back fro him...but its all up to you dont let him mistreat you
-Tawny
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He broke up and wants someone back, come on now, this is a simple case of putting two and two together. Since you bothered to ask the question, I'll assume you don't get it.
He dumped you 3 months ago because he wanted to go out with this new girl. Let's just say that realistically, she was his #1 choice, and you're his #2 choice. He ended up dating you first, only to realize 4 months into it, that he REALLY wanted to be with someone else. Now that #1 is out of the picture, that bumps you back up to #1 for the time being. You can either fall right back for him like many girls do, or you can stand up for yourself and not go for him again.
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He's probably trying to make friendly gestures so you guys can be friends again. Just because he seems friendly, doesn't necessarily mean he wants another relationship.
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He's been thinking about you, and Easter probably seemed like the right opporotunity to give you a call and see how you are. Not talking for that ammount of time probably made him nervous. I'm sure the phone call was akward. If he and his girlfriend broke up, he most likely still has feelings for you and wants to start talking again.
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hey. most likely he was just trying to be kind. probally the ignoring got to him and he wanted to tell you that you guys are still friends. i think that it was very kind of him. you might want to make sure that they are broken up before you get any ideas. if you still like him you could maybe (slowly) start up the relationship again with talking to him and asking to hang out. i hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥
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Most likely, the ignoring eachother nonsense got to him. It's been awhile since the breakup, you've both gotten over it, and he probably wants to start fresh. Most of all, he's being really mature about it. You should start talking to him more, and maybe he'll uncover that he has feelings for you again. Who knows?
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There could be a lot of different reasons on why he called and why he's talking to you all of the sudden. I think he just wants to be friends. He probablly doesn't like that you guys ignore each other and don't talk so he just wanted to be nice and say happy easter. Keep talking to one another and then see how things turn out. You'll be able to notice if he wants to be something more than friends.
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I think he jus wants to be friends. I called my ex last night too and said ahppy easter. Well we're more relly good friends and he's my ex...n im his um ex ex ex! Lol i mean he had 2 gfs after me.. Anyhow I think he just wants to be nice and be friends...why don't yah return his call and tell him happy easter if u didn't!
Good luck
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