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My brother keeps watching porne.
ok. my brother keeps watching porne. i was making mac and chesse and i needed to go on the computer and i saw this one girl liek showin her boobs and naked and stuff. it seems so weird becuz my brother is so nice and smart you would never suspect it and everybody loves him. he got introuble with my mom and dad before and i dont want to tell them again. im worried because i dont want him to grow up and turn into this like rapist or whatever when he grows up. i dont know if i should have my 18 year old sister then again im not comfortable telling her. i dont know what to do. he watches all this stuff.please help me.
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You can get addicted to porn. Put some kind of parental lock on the computer. Check your internet security software (if you have any). Some include parental control software.
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Just leave it alone. He's growing up, and if he likes porn, then so be it. Give him privacy, and let him do his own thing. Why would you wanna tell on him, and make him mad at you. Just let it be.
♥TiNA
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There is nothing wrong with watching porn.
Repeat that over and over in your mind until it sinks in.
Many wonderful, kind, loving guys like to watch pornography. Rapists like to go out and rape people, not watch pornography. That's like saying because you like to eat bacon, you like to go out and torture little piglets to death. That simply isn't the way people work dear.
So look at your nice, smart, lovable brother, and remind yourself that good people can like porn. Someday, when you met the most wonderful guy you've ever known, you'll be a smart enough women not to flip out and leave him because he likes to stare at naked women every once and a while.
As long as he doesn't give up on other things because of porn, like school work or friends, then just keep what you know to yourself, and for your own peace of mind, give him some privacy.
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Leave it alone hun.
He is a growing boy, very natural. Hes horny just like every single other guy out there in the world. And just about every other guy watches porn too.
If he is watching it while you need to get on then just kick him off. No big deal, its not like you have to watch it.
So my advice would be just let him do his own thing.
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If your brother is under 18 years old, then you have a responsibility to let your parents know. They can discuss it with him. The curiosity is natural, and normal. However, porn can be very addictive and harmful. Please tell your parents, and then you won't have to carry the burden of this problem. Your brother is not going "to turn into a rapist" from viewing porn, and it is not a character flaw that he is doing this. I am also concerned that you may be protecting him out of fear or even guilt from having seen it yourself. Please don't think you are protecting him or yourself by not telling. Talking to your parents about what you saw and how you feel is going to be difficult, but the best for you and your brother. If you cannot do this, please talk to a school teacher, counselor or other very trusted adult.
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First of all, I would like to commend you on your admirable bravery for asking advice on this sensitive topic.
Pornography has been a source of decay in our society. Sadly, it has filtered through to our young children of today. The most prudent choice I would make in a situation like this is to notify your parents about your brother's improper behavior. It is your parents' duty to reprimand him for doing this act early. So, it does not escalate to more serious incidents in the future such as unwanted pregnancy, contracting an illness such as a Sexually Transmitted Disease (STD) or even AIDS. In conclusion, you are right thing in telling your parents and I place a heavy emphasis on early detection. Your brother will thank you in the end.
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You have to understand that guys are more into sexual stuff then girls are (AKA they are PERVERTED)
It's a normal thing for a straight male (so you know that he's not bi or gay =P)
It's true that a lot of guys watch porn at an early age.
But if it continues throughout their adult years it could turn into a big problem. They can get addicted and lose all their money paying for 5minute shows and such.
You tell him yourself that You're worrried that he's going to be a porn addict. That you don't want him to get sucked into the abnormal world.
Show him that you're worried and that you're going to give him only ONE more chance to straighten things out.
Ask him what he would say if you were to get addicted to porn? Ask him what he would do if you were to be there with him and watch all those fake shows.
Give him one more chance..and if he's closing in around 18 (17,18,n 19) tell your parents no matter how much your brother will hate you. It will be best for him
If he's around 14, 15, 16, it's your decision to tell or not.
I hope everything goes well and that your brother doesn't get addicted.
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hey, well watching porn is a big part of a guys life. 9 out of 10 guys watch porn. its just a thing that they do. dont worry about it, hes not going to turn into a rapist. its complelty normal to watch porn.
-caitt♥
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