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Which Boy


Question Posted Friday October 15 2004, 10:04 pm

17-F Ok there are these to boys Rob and Dan. Dan is my type and we get along really well, the thing is we don't wanna screw up what we have and it seems whenever we hang out I wanna do naughty things to him. But Rob he's more sweet and nice to me and I've known him for a while and I can see us having a long relationship. But Dan is more exciting and Rob is more loyal and faithful. I'm a senior in HS and I haven't had a BF in over a year so I dunno who to pick please help

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mizzthang91 answered Saturday October 16 2004, 9:00 pm:
well it depends who;'s mroe fun to be with . you should think about who u like more and who makes you laugh . but also someone who is loyal and gr8 BF (Rob for instance) . but ifu wnat someone to just fool around with and have a good time but arent lookinq for a serious .loyal and lonq term boyfriend then go with dan . hope i helped!

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Blondie04 answered Saturday October 16 2004, 3:10 pm:
I would say to go with the loyal and faithful one, Rob. Mainly because those are the ones that will stick by your side through thick and thin. This isn't always the case, but 9 times out of 10, it will work. It's okay to have a fun friend, but if you know someone who is sweet and nice and have known them for a while and can see having a lasting relationship for it, I think you answered your question. You can still be friends with Dan, don't get me wrong. I hope it all works out for you.

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sunshine1232 answered Friday October 15 2004, 11:26 pm:
i would choose rob because he seems more trustworth then dan and it seems to me that rob is the kind of person that you could spend all your time with and you could tell him anything and he would listen and always be there for you and always have your back and when you need him the most.

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jazz82289 answered Friday October 15 2004, 11:15 pm:
OK, what you need to do is figure out what both of them want, if Dan doesn't want a long term relationship, and that's what you want then drop him. But you have to do the same thing with Rob, being boys they may not be looking for a long term thing. You have to make what you want known. Make sure that you aren't doing anything that puts you in an uncomfortable position or makes you do what you don't want to do. And having a boyfriend isn't the most important thing ESPECIALLY when you are a senior because you are going to be going away really soon and you will have the opportunity to meet many new people chica!

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PinoyBoi answered Friday October 15 2004, 10:33 pm:
hey....well hereshow is see it..you have to really good guys chosen for you as a boyfriend..well one you have ..well..naughty feelings for and the other is more...how do i say...more faithful and you see you could be with for a long time...well you most likey dont want to mess up the relationship you already have with one,...so i would go with the other..that way if it dosent work out,,you always have your other friend and have another person to choose from..but if you think a sexual relationship is as important in a relationship..then i would go with the other guy,but would take it slow..you know not rush it..that way it all works out in the end..you naw mean...peace out and good luck with the decsion..hope your happy with the one you make.

--PinoyBoi

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mysticpixie05 answered Friday October 15 2004, 10:32 pm:
it all depends on you right now. do you want to settle down and have a committed relationship then choose rob and if you just want a boyfriend for shits and giggles then choose dan. Either way if your just looking to do stuff with one of them, then you can still choose rob and do stuff and also be in a commited relationship... if thas what you really want. Its your decision. good luck

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Siren_Cytherea answered Friday October 15 2004, 10:31 pm:
Well, that depends entirely on what kind of a relationship you want. If you literally want a boy toy - just someone to fool around with and spend some time with, I'd say go with Dan.
However, if you want a solid relationship, go for a loyal, sweet guy like Rob. Realize, too, that once in a relationship, a loyal and faithful guy can become exciting.
Boy toys can get boring after awhile, and you might want commitment. Weigh your options, think everything over, then go with your gut instinct - whatever that little voice in the back of your head is yelling at you to do.
I hope this helps!
-Siren =)

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desib00 answered Friday October 15 2004, 10:10 pm:
if youre looking for a commitment..go for rob. if ou're just looking for kicks here and there go for dan. it just depends what you're looking for at the moment. good luck! = )

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