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okay recently i had this boyfriend who i thought was my everything. well everything was apparently nothing at all when i kissed someone else so now i am broken up with my boyfriend and the other guy my parents never want me to see the other guy again but we both really like eachother. We arent going out right now bwcause neither one of us want a relationship. Oh yeah and i have liked this other guy for about a year.So i have liked him b4 i met my boyfriend. I am 13 years old and a female!Plz give good advice!!!!!!!!
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Your 13-years old. You aren't mature enough to have a boyfriend, you might call them "boyfriends", but when you get older you'll see. Oh yeah, don't want boyfriend problems? Stop being a whore and stay with one guy.
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oi... you're 13, that's young for such drama! however, i know sometimes you fall for someone at the wrong time. listen, don't directly disobey your parents, because they tend to get angry then. however, if you relaly like the guy, build a really strong friendship with him first. that way, when you're a little bit older, you'll have more freedom to date him, and you'll have a really strong basis for a relationship... best of luck.
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I would say you're dumb for going out with your ex-boyfriend in the first place. I also must call you dumb for then not hooking up with the other guy. =p I would say you need to just like talk to him a bunch at school and like stay after school with him or something? I don't know, just don't let your parents know. Do that once or twice and then see if he and you want a relationship. If you don't then the whole first break up was pointless, unless you really didn't like the guy. Maybe you two could stay friends with benefits. I don't know. But yea, hang out and become better friends then decide if a relationship is really where you guys want to head. Hope I helped. Though I felt my advice just kind of ran around in circles, so sorry bout that. -Manda
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Okay, first off, there are plenty of guys out there... and i am sure that your not gonna find the man of your dreams until your in like highschool, college, or after that! Anyhoo, just hang out with this guy that you like... go to movies and stuff. Don't lie to your parents, they ALWAYS find out! Just say that your gonna hang out with one of you guy friends... and if they ask, there IS a difference between hanging out and going on a date!!! I hope i helped! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
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Wait! You confused me. So who was your everything? Your bf? So you kissed another guy and your parents don't want you to see the guy? Why can't you see him? I think you should hang out with him maybe at the movies or something and just don't tell your parents and if you don't want to date now, then no need to tell your parents. Talk to them about it though and see what they say. You are only 13 so you have plenty of time, just hang out with him outside of yalls houses and maybe meet up with him after school or something and say you have a project haha. I think you should go for the guy you kissed since you've liked him for so long. -Kayla
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Judging by your lack of good wording I am finding it hard to see that you are even ready to have a relationship of any kind. It is clear that you have no idea what love is and you should go back to being the little girl that you are.
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All guys when they first start going out with you think you are the only one for their lives. Everyone, actually, starts out thinking this way. A true relationship comes when the two mates truly love each other for who they are and really care about the person. Not just because of a fluttery feeling in the stomach. Those relationships, a lot of the time, don't last long. Soemtimes they do. I can see your parents point of view because you cheated on your boyfriend by kissing another guy. You need to think about your actions and what you really want in your life. If you want the guy A, you need to think about how you can earn his trust back and how you can get his love back to where a relationship should be. If you want guy B, you need to let guy A go and go after guy B any way you know how.
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