Question Posted Wednesday October 27 2004, 8:57 pm
ok, so, there is this guy i have been friends with for about a year. and well, i like him. he has a girlfriend tho. anyways, he was walking me halfway home and we decided to sit down 4 a minute to take a rest cuz its kind of a long walk. and he tickled me a little, then i tickled him back...and so on....we are both VERY ticklish. well, while we were tickling each other i kinda like, layed back (not purposly) and he looked into my eyes.................................and kissed me! i mean its what i have wanted for so long but i didnt want him to cheat on Kim 4 it! what should i do?! i want to kiss him again but i dont wanna ruin anything with them and i dont think they are ever gonna break up. so...what do i do? he has been talking to me latley and he said that with the way things with him and kim have been going latley that they probably wont last long. so maybe thats why he did it. cuz he was confused.
Additional info, added Saturday October 30 2004, 12:38 am: confused about his feelings i mean. cuz i have broken up with someone 4 someone i THOUGHT liked me but it turned out he doesnt.
The question in this is what i should do about him kissing me? I like the FWB idea but I dont want to make them break up. but..if they do break up then how long should i wait untill i try and get him to ask me out? . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Blondie04 answered Thursday October 28 2004, 1:12 pm: Tell him how you feel about it. Let him know that yes, you do have feelings for him (if that's the case), but you don't want to ruin his relationship with the other girl because of it. Being friends is okay. If they break up and it's not because of your relationship with him, then it would be okay to go ahead and go out. Guys get confused really easily. Tell him that he needs to focus and look at what's important to him. Have him pray about it. Have him really think about his feelings and his relationship with Kim. I wouldn't want to dump someone just because I liked someone else. I've had it done to me before and it hurts. If there is a significant reason, like she cheated on him or she went out and had sex with another guy, then I would understand. But not for someone else. It's best just to stay friends and see what happens with their relationship. [ Blondie04's advice column | Ask Blondie04 A Question ]
puppy_x3_love answered Wednesday October 27 2004, 9:48 pm: hey, it's not cheating unless you have sex
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