I had an advice page before and i gave out some advice and really helped people but i never got many people and i hope that i can help out many people here..
E-mail: pinkie4life20@aol.com
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Age: 16
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ok well this is the girl that has been talkin about Broc. well last nite at like hmm 1030 he came over with 3 of my other guy friends and we hung out til like 1 this morning. well rite before he left he grabbed my hand & started hugging me then we KISSED & for like the next ten minutes thats all we did was make out. lol so im glad that he made a move & stuff but im leavin tomorrow for 2 weeks so i wont be able to see him & he said he doesnt want me to go but i cant just not go..he told me he had to ask me sumthing tonite before i leave tomorrow morning. wut do u think it could be. i hav ean idea but if hes gonna ask me out idk wut im gonna say... cuz im a big flirt & im afraid i mite do sumthing in hawaii. so i dont want to take the chance of cheatin on him. ya know. wut do u think i should do.. plz respond like before tonite cuz hes coomin over tonite!!!!!!!!!thanx a bunch
kristi (link)
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well we never expected a kiss... but thats great.. but if he asks you out. just remeber what i said. just say that you want to wait til after you get back that way you guys can start the relationship off good and able to see each other.. you dont want to start it with 2 weeks apart. but make sure you tell him you like him and everything! well if ya need me more you know where to find me!
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I talked to my x today...its only been a week since we broke up. He said "sometimes I have the urge to call you and tell you I want you back, but I don't"...it hurts. I miss him so much, and I can't get my mind off of him. I know we're not meant to be together b/c we are two totally different people and want 2 different things...but I really love him, and I want to stay friends it just hurts so much when I talk to him...what do i do? (link)
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the pain isnt going to go away any time soon. you love him and its still really early to think about getting over him. just talk to him and tell him how you feel and that you want to be friends because you dont want to lose him. and tell him everything your feeling. dont hold anything in. tell him its hard on you when you talk because of how you feel and that you dont want to stop talking but that it hurts when he says things like wanting you back but realizing he doesnt. there is no easy way of getting away from the pain. the only way i know that really helps is a lot of ice cream, your best friends, and some movies and an all nighter at your house. it helps just knowing you have someone there to help ya and it takes a lot of your mind. plus they are there to help you out! so just talk to him and have an all nighter with your friends and you will feel a bit better!
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evr since i was born my grandmother has always been with me. even more than my own mother........not lyk she a bad mom or nethin but......lemme explain.....wen i was born my mom was have some economic problems so she told my grandmother to take me to the Dominican Republic (country where all my relatives were born cept me)neways i came bak 2 us wen i was 4 n my grandmother has lived with us ever since......well until a few weeks ago when she passed away..........ne advice on how to deal wit it? (link)
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its hard to lose someone that you were so close with. i have been living with my grandparents for a long time. they became like my mom and dad to me since my parents werent around as much. my parents werent bad parents i just was really attached to my grandparents. just think that shes in a better place away from all the crime and the harsh world we live in now. shes in a much better place then here. that helps knowing that she doesnt feel pain anymore and she doesnt have to deal with any health problems she may have had or anything. know that she will always be in your heart and shes with you every step you take. shes not gonna leave someone she loves. it also helps that when you feel like your missing her or need her to just go talk to her. sit in a room and talk to her and just tell her whats going on. she listens. i hope i help. i know its a really hard thing to deal with. and im here if you need me
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Well been married to my husband for 2 year's been together for 3 year's and he is getting worse, he work's night shift from 9 p.m.-6a.m. mon-thur and he sleep's all day until it's time for him to go to work and than when it's time for him to be off from work he sleep's all day and stay's up all night he spend's no time with me,i feel like he is my room mate and than he just started stop telling me he love's me and kissing me good bye,but we do still make love he never hold's me, please help i cry all the time,don't know what to do. (link)
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there are many things you can do. you can talk to him and tell him you feel like your being pushed away because he never seems to have time for you. tell him that you miss his love and kisses and just him holding you. you need to talk to him about everything your feeling because not letting him know isn't going to help at all. you could also talk to him about getting a different shift. it will help you guys have more time for each other. or just try to wake up up around 3ish because that will be around 8-9 hours of sleep and spend some time with him. i think you need to start off by telling him how you feel first. i hope i helped
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If you cut yourself once...then realize what you've done is stupid..should you seak help? (link)
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I wouldn't seek help just yet. if you have the urge to do it again then yes get help but if not then its ok. you realized it was stupid so i dont see you in any great danger. but if you do get worst and have the urge to do it come talk to me. i was in this situation before i know how it feels..but there is no reason to seek help for just once!
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ok well broc has a class with my best friend chantell and they were talkin bout me adn stuff and broc told chantell that when he talks to a girl he likes he gets nervous... so that nite he called me and he was all like " ya i get nervous when i talk to u" so i mean hes given hints that he likes me but idk hes confusing. i also have another problem/. im leavin for 2 weeks on saturday. and ill be in hawaii so its not like we can see each other. what if he asks me out before i leave???? id love for him to ask me out but see im the biggest flirt ever and everytime i go to hawaii i also end up makin out with sumone. so i dont want to like cheat on him or nething u know. and my friend kawika( from hawaii) is setting me up with his bro. so wut do u think i should do if he asks me out befor ei leave????
kristi (link)
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thats easy.. when he asks you out be like dont get me wrong i do like you a lot and everything but im going on vacation and i think it would suck to just start going out with you when im leaving for 2 weeks and we wont be able to see each other. so once i get back and we are able to see each other and talk more i would love to. and he should be perfectly ok with that. if he cant wait 2 weeks then hes not worth having. but just tell him hey im goin on vacation and i think we should just wait til i get back that way we can spend time together and everything and i dont have to be worried about you while im down there i can have fun and relax. he should totally understand and have fun in hawaii.. its beautiful down there.. i want to go so bad
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ok well theres this guy broc and i like him alot. broc's best friend cole and me talk all the time and cole always tells me that broc likes me and that he wants to go out with me, but hes just too shy to say nething. im not the shy kinda grl so i dont care if i have to make the first move or nething, but i dont want to ALWAYS make the first move, ya know. do u think after were together or after ive made sum moves hell loosen up and make sum moves??? cuz i dont want to feel like im doin all the work in the relationship.
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i think after you make the first move and everything he will losen up if not just tell him that hey you need someone that is willing to make some first moves and that he shouldnt have to be shy with you! its great that your not that shy of a girl too.. you need one out going person in the relationship!
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lately i been having troubles with friends. and it has upsetted me pretty bad. im the type of person that things bother more then most people. its just who i am. but ever since i started having problems with my friend (its been 1 or 2 weeks now) i have totally just cut down eating. like i didnt even notice it until i realized i lost 10 pounds in this short amount of time. i cant really help it i just been kinda upset and i cant really change my situation with my friends for a while. we just have things we have to figure out and everything! i dont know what i could really do to eat more and not lose weight. i have tried to eat a little more then i have been these past couple weeks but if i do i just throw up. its like my body rejects food. what should i do? (link)
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you could have a serious depression problem. try going to a doctor and getting help. they have pills for depression now. also dont force yourself to eat but try eating more fatter things and try to eat more then the normal 3 times a day. try to eat whenever possible that way your body has enough in it! but this could seriously lead to a major eating disorder. get help soon!
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how far do ya'll think is the best to go in a relationship of 5 months. (link)
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a relationship of 5 months i wouldnt go to far. a little touchy feely should be ok. i wouldnt have sex! that could leave some serious regret if you do! and plus your still young! sex should wait til you know your in love. but touchy feely things shouldnt be bad! nothing to extreme! and just make sure your comfortable with everything that happens!
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I had a boyfriend and we were together for 9 months..we had sex and I don't think I was ready. I was one of those girls who wanted to stay a virgen until I was married...and now its gone....should I regret it? B/c I feel like I do, but I know there isn't anything I can do about it now... (link)
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ok you say you were together and you had a boyfriend so that must mean your not together anymore. since it already happen you cant drive on the regret. you may have a feeling of regret but theres nothing you can do. the next step you can take tho to feel better or feel less guilt is try to not have sex again until marriage. and try to keep that promise to yourself because you know how it feels now it will feel like that again if you dont think your ready..once your married you will know your ready and there wil be no regret! just try waiting and make that promise to yourself. you can do it! just believe in yourself!
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i love my best friend she is so awesome but i guess lately ive been succeding in a lot of things and shes always telling me how much better i am at things than she is and i think shes kinda getting upset about it. i try to reassure that w/e she does is awesome cause it is but i guess it just really gets her down when i am "better" at something... what should i do?? (link)
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just talk to her. ask her what she is feeling about it. its not uncommon for a friend to be jealous! but she should want you to suceed. if it is such a problem a jealous friend isnt the best to have! but talk to her and tell her that no matter what happens there is no reason to be jealous and find the things that she is better at then you and just be like see i dont get jealous when you do this because your better then it then i am and just tell her that you both are good at different things theres nothing you can really do about it! its natural! so just talk to her!
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well the past 3 years me and my ex have been talkin every single day on da phone.. he calls me everyday and he is so sweet to me and so am i but we havent seen each other for 3 years never.......i kno its weird but i kinda liked da way he waz with me and how he called me everyday anywayz today i went to see him and omg i think i like him alottttttttttttttttttt......but i dont know what to do he called me today and we were talking about each other and eerything please help me i like him alot (link)
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if you like him and you think you can handle not seeing as often and everything then go for it. just talk about remaining friends when your break up like you did last time and everything that way nothing is hurt! but if you like him why not go for it!
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Hey! my name is soulsista. I need some good advice on this situation.you see, my friend is going to junior high as a seventh grader. She has only dated twice.Once from kindergarten to 1st grade and another in about 4th or 5th grade.
she really needs to know if she should start dating again or just stay single for now. (link)
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entering middle school i would stay single at first and make sure you get to know people first. its a big change from elementary school. just wait a little while until you find someone you really like! dont rush into dating...you have your whole life so while your young just have fun!
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i am 14 years old.. i am 5'7 and i weight about 125 pounds!! am i fat? am i above average?? cuz i am worrying about my weight! (link)
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no your not fat! you are probally maybe for your height a little below average...i know that people like 5'2 should be like 115-120 so your definantly not above average! your fine. but if you worried just eat healthy and work out a little each day nothing major!
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okay.. i have been wondering about this.. do you have to shave {down there}? do guys prefer? which is most common? sorry im very curious! lol (link)
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no you dont have to shave down there...guys really dont care. some guys have their preference but most dont...not shaving i am guessing would be the most common...im not the greatest on sex questions so i hope i helped
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hi. i've been with my b/f for about 5 mo. and i'm 14 and he's 16. i REALLY want to have a baby! i don't know why i just ReAlLy do! but also my cuz whos 20 's g/f just had a baby and she was 17(now 18) and they really struggle with financial problems. then his bro was dating a woman last year and just 2 weeks ago found out he was a dad. i really want to have a baby! what should i do?
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you sound a lot like me when i was 14. i loved the idea of having a family and everything but being 14 it isnt the time. no matter how much you think you LOVe your boyfriend now. at such a young age boyfriends arent really the most stable thing and when you have a baby you want to make sure you have a stable relationship and can support yourself. also labor is TONS of pain. so if you dont like pain i definantly WOULDNT want to have a baby right now. plus your still in school and a baby would basically ruin your chances of having a good career when your older. you need to just wait to have a baby. its very unhealthy to have a baby at such a young age. no matter how bad you want one. you will regret if you have one at this young age. trust me and just wait til your older! you see the problems your family is having and they are older.it would so much worst for you since your younger. so just wait and trust me on this one. its better to wait..
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Hey y'all, Newayz im going out with this guy named Damion, and we've been dating for about a year and he likes to talk about other gurls in front of me and i dont really trust him. I truley think he is cheating on me, but i also love him to pieces,and i kno he loves me alot to and i jus cant give up on him because we already been through alot. Got any suggestions?? (link)
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its nice to just ask him straight out if he is or not and tell him exactly how you feel. sometimes its the best way to go. and don't let your love for him blind you. make sure you truely think hes cheating on you. and try to gain some trust for him once you know hes NOT cheating on you. trust is really important in a relationship. without it your paronoid and it ruins things. hope i helped!
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Im 13 and im like 5'3 and i weigh 110.I dont know if thats normal are not but it makes me feel bad when im with guys and i sit down there is like a huge thing of fat om my stomach..and my thighs omg they are huge!!Does anyone know what i can do? (link)
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first of all thats normal weight. your not over weight or anything. if you feel fat just try to eat healthier and work out a little in the areas that you think need it. dont over do it tho. you arent over weight or even close. dont do anything unhealthy. its also nice ot talk to your doctor about it because he can help you do exactly what you need to do with the specific part of your body your not happy with!
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what does it mean when you ask someone what's their sign?{{try to be descriptive please}} (link)
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usually it means the astrological (spelling may be wrong) sign like your horoscope sign. people wanna know each other's sign sometimes to check like compatibility charts and everything. it all goes by when your birthday is. if you want to know your sign just type in horoscope on yahoo or google and it will help you!
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i'm a girl and i want this guy to be my boyfriend..what do i do?
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easy.. tell him how you feel.. and hope he feels the same. or there are other ways like asking friends of his and everything but the easiest way is just to tell him and have a nice talk to him about everything your feeling..i wanted a guy to be my boyfriend and i just came right out and told him and everything and i found out he likes me too and now we are basically together.. we are just waiting to get to know each other better.. the straight forward approach is the best way to go!
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