ok well theres this guy broc and i like him alot. broc's best friend cole and me talk all the time and cole always tells me that broc likes me and that he wants to go out with me, but hes just too shy to say nething. im not the shy kinda grl so i dont care if i have to make the first move or nething, but i dont want to ALWAYS make the first move, ya know. do u think after were together or after ive made sum moves hell loosen up and make sum moves??? cuz i dont want to feel like im doin all the work in the relationship.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? HollyAnn2282 answered Thursday June 24 2004, 5:11 pm: Ya know i'm the same way i've dated a few guys in the past like that. Yeah make a move or two and maybe talk threw Instant messanger online or on the phone and tell him you dont always want to be the one making the move, if you say anything to his face he might get a little shy and nervous and what not! Just tell him you like him and you want to be with him but you dont always want to be the one making the first moves... and Hey you never know he might break out of his shell and make ALL the moves! Good luck!
-Holly-
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xxHalliexx answered Thursday June 24 2004, 2:18 pm: well, i dated a guy that was shy ,and im not,it was terrible!!!He said like no more than 5 words to me a day!!its took him like 2o minnutes to like ask me out(in 1 conversation)i dumped him after a week!!trust me a relationship like that is not kool!!but if u really like him just start talking to him like friends, then he might be able to ask you out
Siren_Cytherea answered Thursday June 24 2004, 1:39 am: If you feel like you wanna make the first move, go for it. He might open up after he sees that you want him to.
Hell, I AM the shy kinda girl, and I had to practically tell my current bf to kiss me the first time. Lol. He just didn't want to move too fast. That might be Broc's problem.
So just give him a little nudge and he should loosen up.
Good luck!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
pinkchicky20 answered Wednesday June 23 2004, 10:42 pm: i think after you make the first move and everything he will losen up if not just tell him that hey you need someone that is willing to make some first moves and that he shouldnt have to be shy with you! its great that your not that shy of a girl too.. you need one out going person in the relationship! [ pinkchicky20's advice column | Ask pinkchicky20 A Question ]
SexyHal answered Wednesday June 23 2004, 9:56 pm: Hey lol I used to like a Broc..well neways I think that if you show him you like him by making a couple of moves if he feels the same he should loosen up some and flirt with you. GOOD LUCK WITH BROC!!
-Haleigh (rate my advice plz.) [ SexyHal's advice column | Ask SexyHal A Question ]
xoxjessicaxo answered Wednesday June 23 2004, 9:43 pm: hey gurl!! yae i think that maybe if u make a few moves, and show him that u like him too,he should loosen up and make moves on u.. but if u can try to b around him to see if he makes some moves first, and if the time is right, and he dont, u just slide right on in and make a move.. I HOPE I HELPED [ xoxjessicaxo's advice column | Ask xoxjessicaxo A Question ]
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